Sunday, January 19, 2025

Light and life

 Wednesday, January 15, 2025

It's a wild scramble to get on the movie night list on Mondays when the invitation is posted. But eventually everyone is included: usually there are 50-60 attendees. The sun goes down late at this time of year, just south of the equator. I take this picture at 6:20 PM, admiring the sunset with several young adults. By the time everyone else arrives, it is dark.

Cautiously, the newcomers venture into the group. Once people get their food, the room starts to warm up. We always have first-time visitors ("First time, a guest") along with returning attendees ("Second time, a friend.")
Our greeters are those who have come many times. They make sure others feel welcome. ("Third time, you're family.") The line stretches out the door as we load up our plates. Today, we come from 11 countries.
It's good to see people fill their plates and their hearts, chit-chatting as they make their way into the kitchen, and back out to find a seat for the first half of the movie.
Students and (mostly) young adults sit on the porch or inside. We've gradually set up the room with a chair for each person, not just a beanbag or pillow. After the first half of the movie, it's time for desert. Then we finish watching The Wild Robot with attending "ooh!" "oh no!" and "AHhhh!" as the scenes unfold.
What lively discussions afterward! The helpers have washed up and taken out the garbage before 10 PM. By 11, everyone's gone home. We shower, pray over those who came - that they experience God's care, friendship, and health ... and fall fast asleep.

Thursday
We leave for the mountain hike at 7:30 AM, after picking up Veronica and Brunhild, her friend from Germany. The route starts with a narrow chasm between cliffs. The trail is elevated over the muck below with bamboo stalks. Where the bamboo has begun to rot, boards are nailed across the span to hold the bamboo off the wet ground. We step from board to board. It's slippery but not difficult.
As the crest of a hill, the dogs watch hikers climb the trail behind us.
It's mostly downhill though 3 climbs upward lie between those descents.
As usual, the vegetation catches my eye.
PakG drops us at Ethnic for our post-hike lunch. Several retired hikers join us. We're only a few blocks from home, so W and I walk back. A hot shower is in order. I treat myself to tea and Trader Joes peanut butter cups. (Oh oh, the TJ container is half empty - we bring one home each October. Must space out my treats better.)

IbuA has baked pretzel buns, so W snags a hot roll on his stroll through the kitchen. The women have put the furniture back in place and the floors and shelves have been washed. The kitchen is tidy again. 

The women are glad that we've simplified the movie night setup. Art is still taken off the "screen" wall, and we bring chairs from upstairs down and back. But most of the room stays intact. (They used to haul rugs, the dining table, and shelves away.)
Supper with visitors from Germany is at their hotel nearby. The city sparkles from the opposite hill outside the windows. We enjoy lively a conversation about who God is and how he is at work in the world. 
W and I walk home in the warm mist. It's not worth putting up an umbrella. There are few public streetlights. Instead, every household must turn on lights near their entry to guide passersby. Most have automatic lights like ours that turn on at dusk.

On the Porch, W rehangs the lamp he put aside for movie night. The LEDs sparkle; the plastic bulbs tap against each other in the wind. Eight years ago, we found three of these chandeliers in an ACE Hardware Christmas clearance ($4). They faithfully ward off the dark.
Friday
Before 5 AM, I'm finally wrestling with ideas for Sunday.  In movie week, there's no capacity for anything but that - until we are refreshed by nature and the house is reset.

Sunday is coming ... and the topic is parenting. I've been tossing around the topic for 2 weeks. How does one raise children to love and serve God? I turn to the scriptures to see what God teaches us as our heavenly Father.

Then I walk around the block to reset my head. The Padma hotel is dressed for Chinese New Year, coming later this month.
We pick up a white birdcage and PakG takes home 2 free hamster cages for his kids, thrown into the deal. As we pass the main mosque, cars are double-parked for blocks as men gather for the week's prayers.
PakG cleans the new cage. "Oh look at this!" he exclaims. He points out a gap in the blue budgerigar's wing and a hole bitten in its body. "Probably was a rat!"

I put some tissues in the corner so the bird will have a warm "blanket" if it chooses. It hops into the opposite corner.
PakG and W doctor the wounds with iodine and put the bird and its companion into the new cage. "Usually a bird will die if it is injured like this," PakG tells us. It hops around a bit. Let's see.

This week, I've met with most team members, one on one. I'm asking, "What do you sense that God intends to do in you this coming year?" and, "What goals are you setting for your work?" The answers intrigue me and give me direction for prayers.

Saturday
The budgie is alive and moving around the cage. I cruise the yard to see what's blooming. The flowerbeds are filled with color.
The lemon tree is fruiting, big clumps of lemons hanging from its branches.
Under it, seedlings from a potted red flower have matured and are themselves creating seedlings.
I spend most of the afternoon puttering. I walk +4000 steps, back and forth between rooms, returning art to the walls, clearing office storage, and storing the final Christmas items. Finally, I put some prints (from Penang, last year) into frames and sort the papers on my desk.

The last stacks of books from my office get shelved in the little library in the main room. The space has become a tranquil corner to curl up to read or meditate. I dig my toes into the shag rug beside the armchair.
Read more:
*In you, Lord my God,

    I put my trust.


I trust in you;

    do not let me be put to shame,

    nor let my enemies triumph over me.


No one who hopes in you

    will ever be put to shame,

but shame will come on those

    who are treacherous without cause.


Show me your ways, Lord,

    teach me your paths.


Guide me in your truth and teach me,

    for you are God my Savior,

    and my hope is in you all day long.


Remember, Lord, your great mercy and love,

    for they are from of old.


Do not remember the sins of my youth

    and my rebellious ways;

according to your love remember me,

    for you, Lord, are good.


Good and upright is the Lord;

    therefore he instructs sinners in his ways.


He guides the humble in what is right

    and teaches them his way.


All the ways of the Lord are loving and faithful

    toward those who keep the demands of his covenant. Psalm 25:1-10

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

Nice people and "The Wild Robot"

Sunday, January 12, 2025 

It's a full morning: community prayer, worship, speaking, and a board meeting. The weather is bright from sunrise until after the Gathering. Then the sky starts to drip water.

We take our social media person for a business lunch.

It's nice to watch families eating and celebrating near us. This grandson helps his Oma after the meal.

And these little boys happily walk arm in arm, bumping hips on the way home from an impromptu soccer game.

An old Toyota catches my eye. FB friends identify it as a 1970 model, in excellent condition.

Titik sends home a fabulous creation, saying: "The snapdragons must be in season." She names a ridiculous price for the 20-or-so stems she's pulled into an arrangement.

W and I watch The Wild Robot movie in preparation for Wednesday. I'm not an animation fan but it's well done. I tried to read the book series in November and couldn't get into it. Hopefully the movie night crowd will enjoy it and have lots to discuss. W is working on the question.

Monday

Walk, calls, flowers. The sun glows off the trees.

Our hill is a mix of wealth and poverty. This little triangle is a playground for everyone, while a pop-up shop, nightclub, and a mansion live on its edges.

One neighbor's 4- or 5-yr-old child received a motorized car for Christmas. Her nanny trails her as the child putts around. The nanny reaches over with a spoon to push in breakfast each time the girl takes her foot off the "gas." Children may be spoon fed until almost school age, especially if the family has a designated helper for the youngsters.

I trim some plants going crazy in the garden. Long stems. Purple flowers. Yellow flowers. Why not put them in a quirky vase? There are enough 3' (1 meter) stems for 2 loose arrangements.

W sends out the invitation to Wednesday's movie night. Within 10 minutes there are 50 names on the list. He sorts them out later.

The day's errand is to pick up items I'll cook Wednesday. As the "I'll come!" pings sound on our devices, we stop at the first grocer for eggs, yogurt, fruit, and salad. We eat lunch at a recommended noodle hole-in-the-wall restaurant on the way to the wholesaler.
"It's very spicy!" warns the staff. But it's not. We limit one kind of hot sauce and it's fine. The dumplings with chili crisp are good, too.
It's fun to talk to Felicia, whose family owns the food wholesaler. Before long we have everything we need and are headed home in thick traffic.

Mid-afternoon, I edit a paper for W before he sends it off to an organization. It's helpful to have a second set of eyes on academic work, whether it's his or mine. Plus we learn something every time we read others' research and writing.

After supper, I write a dozen book reviews. I'm behind, not on compulsive reading but on posting reviews. After a while, I have to re-scan what a book is about. No worries; most of what I've read has been enjoyable and informative - either in style of writing or in the descriptions. When you live far from your homeland, books transport you to familiar and new settings.

Tuesday - Mak turns 7
Mom wakes me at 3 AM; she's just heard that my "second dad" is in hospital in Winnipeg. At 94, he's near the beginning of his glorious future. As followers of Jesus, this is our blessed hope.

We call young Mak who shows us the hallway decorated by siblings as a surprise upon waking in the morning. What a wonderful family.
We walk only one loop: my body is lagging after a short sleep. A few young people stroll by on the way to work - arm in arm is fine.
I am off kilter and late to the first meeting online. Puttering - seeing that the flowers are watered, bedding changed, and other chores done - helps regulate the day. PakG takes Titik's bouquet outside to hose down the oasis. The vase is so heavy that it's easiest for him to carry it outside and hydrate it with the hose. Plus, I get to enjoy it from my Porch perch.
Someone is loudly singing nearby. I rarely play music because the tracks in my head are constant and rhythmic. This interrupts so I put a techno playlist on full volume and work until the next meeting starts. 

I make spaghetti carbonara for supper and cook a few sauces so there's less work in the morning.

Wednesday - January Movie Night
Up at 4:30 AM, when W already has the water boiling for spaghetti. The commercial cooking pot and 5-gallon water jug are heavy so his help is a godsend. Spaghetti is the first thing on the cooking menu. Sauces and meats are done before 9 AM. It's getting more efficient every time.

For breakfast I heat up some noodles and grab homemade trail mix. I call Mom and my brother and confirm appointments, before getting out serving pieces and tablecloths. Then I write.
W and PakG shift furniture today instead of the usual Tuesday. I can't disengage until they're done. The guys always have placement questions though the basics are set. We changed the entire layout before Christmas to require half the moving and halve the clutter in my office during movie night. Why didn't we do this sooner?
As usual, the helpers come after 3PM to wash dishes and cut the fruit and salad. They make mayo eggs, cook rice, and bring down the heating trays. What a blessing they are.

Read more:

*God said, “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.” Isaiah 43:1

*Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses. Proverbs 10:12

*In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. 1 John 4:10-11

Moravian Prayer: Loving Creator, when we turn away from love, remind us of our call as your people: to love one another; to care for our neighbor. Give us the courage to love boldly in the face of a world brimming with discontent. Help us love one another well. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Friday, January 10, 2025

Go even if it's raining ...

Tuesday, January 7, 2025

Night descends before my conversation with Alaine, a trusted spiritual advisor. She gives me some grounding exercises and ways to focus on gratitude. How thankful I am to God for her!

A few opportunities are opening up for 2025. W and I evaluate what to accept or decline. We have another year in this house unless things change. I determine to appreciate every person who walks through the door, every blessing of solid construction, and every event hosted. 

I revel in the garden beds and the decommissioned electric wires that are a fine perch for birds, too. I admire red bromeliads that climb up the crooks of the old guava tree.

Wednesday

We walk - I need the stretch before tomorrow's hike. These white bells are too pretty to pass by without a second look. They resemble lily-of-the-valley but don't have a scent. One of the things I miss here is the smell of familiar flowers. Few blooms are perfumed. We have no lilacs, sweet roses, or lily-of-the-valley.

Mind you, we have gardenias. The whole house is filled with their perfume. I pluck the white treasures from the shrub beside the Porch. Today's buds are tomorrow's flowers.

When I sit down to morning meetings, I pull aside the white flat sheets (i.e. drapes) to let cool air flow in under a cloudy sky.

Thursday
Hiking is such a joy. It's the weekly Sabbath where friends and we decompress from work and obligations. It has rained overnight so we're not sure if the trail will be safe. "Let's try," we WhatsApp each other. "And if it's pouring, we can go for coffee together."

We drive up the mountains and get out to drizzle. As we pull on rain gear, we decide: "It's not bad; let's start down the path. We can always turn back if it rains too hard." 

Instead, the weather clears up to high clouds. We pull off our raincoats as we tramp up and down under the cool shade of the forest canopy. Light breezes ruffle the leaves overhead. We are so glad we went.
Mushrooms are overtaking the fallen stumps along the way. This clump is a monster. The "plate-like" stack is 1'/30cm wide, besides little fungi spreading on all sides. "Not edible," says a knowledgable hiker.
Supper is simple: IbuA has baked pretzel rolls, German style. (Thanks to Angie for the recipe.) Veronica sends up avocados; we send down half the rolls, a fair exchange and a good supper all around.
Friday
How can it be the end of the week again?! I do an hour of stretches - my posture has decayed so much from all the sitting. Time to engage the Nicholas Technique (Pilates and strength training) that I did in my 40s. I'm an inch taller after, which doesn't last.

After a walk, it's back to work on the survey. I write a post for Medium and tackle the board agenda for this weekend. Messages fly back and forth.

We decide on lunch down the hill so we can run errands on the way.

It's a long day at the computer. And then it's Friday evening. Thank you, God.

Saturday
W has an early (6:30) study online. Labradoodle Juno and I walk a couple of loops without other companions. It's quiet and peaceful with many walkers enjoying the brisk morning air.

I call our daughter Kirsten in Texas, before getting a second mug of tea. W and I discuss tomorrow's talk on marriage. We sit on the Porch with birds chirping, lizards clicking, and chants sung from various mosques. It's been a week of frequent calls from the towers; we don't know if there's a special occasion or if the readers have just decided to read more often.

The lavender and cyprus twigs in the IKEA grow pots seem to be doing well after a few weeks. They remind me to keep growing this year, too.
Read more:
*Hear my prayer, Lord; let my cry for help come to you. Do not hide your face from me when I am in distress. Turn your ear to me; when I call, answer me quickly. Psalm 102:1-2

*The Lord is good, a stronghold in a day of trouble; he protects those who take refuge in him. Nahum 1:7

*God has made known to us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure that he set forth in Christ. Ephesians 1:9

*So do not throw away your confidence. Hebrews 10:35

Moravian Prayer: God, our protector, thank you for holding steadfast for us. Help us to hold onto our confidence in you, knowing that you will never break, never bend, never lose sight of your love for us. Help us to be strong like you in our service to one another. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Tuesday, January 7, 2025

Most of us are alive and well, 5 years and 25 years after the world almost ended

Saturday, January 4, 2025

Remember 25 years ago at the turn of the century? Many Westerners were in a panic because the world might come to an end? After January 1, 2000, when the predicted computer meltdown didn't happen, they were eating or tossing a year's worth of canned and dried goods.

Here we are 25 years later. 

And when COVID hit, business, socializing, and travel paused and many people died, yet the world kept spinning. 5 years later, most of us hoped we'd be back to normal. That's happened for very few people.

Here we are 5 years later.

Yet, "it's not over until it's over." The one who gets to decide the beginning and end of time is God. I'm happy to put family, my work, and myself in his hands this new year. I feel a bit nostalgic for our hometown of Chilliwack this morning. (Photo of the Hope Slough, near my parents' house.)

Our tropical garden is dry and needs watering. The poinsettias we dug into the garden are wilting. We tell PakG: watch those flowers. When they droop, the garden needs water. We get a sprinkle overnight but it's not enough to hydrate the ground under the hot sun.

Apparently this year the rainy season is back to when it used to be. Our older friends told us, "Months ending in -ber are when the Bandung rains come." For the past few years, rainy season has been late or early. This year it's back to -ber months.

The flowers are thriving and the yard is colorful. The tall yellow blooms grow 6-8"/15cm-ish per week. They look like cosmos but are something else. I gathered their seeds on a hike years ago. Now there are nearly always a few plants lifting their sunny heads toward the sky.

W picks up extra bins for the remaining Christmas decor. I pull in some paintings and books to warm up the main room. I unroll the Pakistani tapestry (1X2m/3X6') that we found in the Old City of Jerusalem.

The Arab traders called out, "Madam, please buy from us. This was specially handcrafted by my Palestinian mother/sister/grandmother" .... except that the tapestries were obviously cobbled together from Pakistani and Indian saris. They were hardly done by Palestinians!

 We joked with the sellers and haggled over the price. I didn't care who made it then and don't care now. I still like it, 14 years later. The sequins sparkle in the afternoon light.

John and Lisa treat us to lunch at Ethnic. The discussion is lively. What a pleasure to have friends who enjoy deep conversations and sharing life.

W and I walk home as thunder rolls across the hills. The wind kicks up. It gets darker and darker; I make myself a cup of cocoa and flip lights on in the house. The ground could use a good rain. We listen for the hiss of water on leaves. Here it comes! the volume rising and falling as clouds scud by overhead.
W and I read through tomorrow's talk one more time. How precious is the family of God - that's what we'll be discussing.

Sunday
We talk about what it means to be part of God's family - and what healthy human families look like. For lunch, I heat up leftovers, cook creamed spinach and garlic mushrooms, and use my auntie's Spätzle-maker to make homemade noodles.
Monday
Finally, I create the survey for my upcoming book about parents of expats: I may call the book "Left Behind."

Jane comes for a cup of tea before lunch. Then W and I catch a ride down the hill to a new Middle Eastern restaurant. Menu items range from $1.75-6.00. You can order trays for parties, too. "And delivery is free," says the server.
I like their biryani rice and stewed beef as well as the schwarma (Middle Eastern burrito). As we enjoy the meal, we discuss upcoming plans and personnel. W hops out for another meeting partway up the hill when we finish.
In our garden, the gardenia shrub has begun to bloom again. I clip a flower to scent the house.
More spectacular is the arrangement Titik created with her garden flowers!
The house is finding its way into the new year, just as we are.
This afternoon, we re-sort and properly store Christmas items so they can be found next year or sold if we move to a smaller place. After last week's Christmas piles are lifted off a wool rug, it gets hauled down to the reading chair. Small details (even a carpet) make a big difference in a room.
The rug was crocheted by an Oregon crafter 25 years ago, using scraps from the Pendleton wool mill. I've always disliked the mashup of dull colors. It's an ugly item I've never regretted buying; I delight in its comfort as I curl my toes into it.
I'm tied up much of the day - checking off to-dos, writing instructions, canceling or postponing events, and chatting with leaders about this and that. W asks me to edit several chapters before he sends them to his book editor.

I start but don't have the stamina for a long session. "Is this what you want?" I ask, sending W the edits partway through. Apparently, yes. Tomorrow is another day.

Tuesday
After a lousy night's sleep, I edit another of W's chapters. We eat breakfast at #NaraPark and work through several meetings. I get great feedback on improving my book survey, too. Thanks, Colleen.

The sun's out most of the morning, which is nice as we drive to get groceries. At the top of the supermarket escalator, the French doors are wide open to the warm breezes. In January. Need I say more?
The dogs are happy when I empty the fridge of leftovers and W mixes it all together. They gobble it down: it's more interesting and nutritious than dog kibble.

I sit in the reading chair to send the last few messages of the day. There's one more meeting in the late evening with a spiritual advisor before it's off to bed.

Read more:
*Arise, shine; for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you. Isaiah 60:1

*He makes me lie down in green pastures; he leads me beside still waters; he restores my soul. Psalm 23:2-3

*You were going astray like sheep, but now you have returned to the shepherd and guardian of your souls. 1 Peter 2:25

Moravian Prayer: Shepherd, guide us to the abiding place you have for us, the green pastures of our soul. Guide us to places where peace and joy may be found. We are your flock and happy to be yours. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.