Friday, January 9, 2026

Grateful for every miracle

Tuesday, January 6, 2026

The team is here for supper. We're short one couple and we miss them! We love these committed and passionate friends. Everyone leads something, according to their interests and gifts.

Della, head of Karel Taste catering, cooks a wonderful New Years feast, starting with soup. That's followed by beef rendang, chicken, shrimp, rice wrapped in banana leaves, and vegetables.

She likes to cook and we like to eat her food.
Dessert? A delicious coconut custard called klapertart. 
Wednesday
Today's the day Christmas decor starts to move to storage. Outside, all is calm. The 80' Norfolk Island pines remind us that houseplants grow differently in their native climates. They absorb pollution, noise, and sightlines.
The Christmas tree's only been up for a week but it's been a pleasure, elevated to eye level by sitting on a table.
After our walk, I have one last look at the living room before it devolves into chaos.
The lights, the bulbs, the garlands ... we enjoyed them all this year.
This tree, given us in a cardboard box with oven drawings on it, was so pitiful that W hesitated to put it together. It has an old-fashioned "stick-with-drilled-holes" trunk and flip-floppy branches that have been inserted and taken apart too many times.
But with one loooong (10 meter/32'?) red garland and a few boxes of red and gold ornaments, it looks pretty in the entry. Today it is stowed back in its oven box, along with the red garland.
We're finding strange little pieces that need repair but for the most part the Project is settling in. This window has a 1X3cm/1/2X2" piece of glass missing in a corner. The drain in one sink leaks. The rayap (termites) are eating their way through a just-replaced window sill. Oh well.
An ongoing process is assigning tasks and ensuring that they can be done in the time allotted. The women are clear on their work inside after sitting down with me yesterday.

But what needs regular maintenance outside - and by whom? Star fruits are rotting on the ground instead of being picked up. The dog pawprints on the side terrace are there for a few days - it's been swept but not mopped. The balcony is littered with leaves. We decide to go through the outside list on Friday.

My favourite meeting of the month lasts 2 hours. I join online from the "apartment" terrace at the far end of the Project. At the end, we all feel celebrated and prayed for. We've been given good counsel from other leaders. Thanks - you know who you are and how important you are to me and each other.

By evening the main Christmas tree is almost bare. The other trees have been packed up for next year and the ornaments are finding their way into boxes. We walk to the old place to pick up W's hiking shoes. He somehow splits a chunk off his big toenail. It looks painful to walk, never mind a hike. He wraps it and says it's fine unless he thinks about it (or someone asks him about it.) 

Thursday
It's been over a month since we've hiked. Today is the day! On the drive to the mountains, we spot someone making charcoal from coconut husks. That will smoke the sate made later in the day.
There's a good turnout for the New Years hike: 14 hikers. Our destination is the Dutch forts from where young men fought each other in the Indonesian war for sovereignty from the Dutch colonists.
Eva is a great trail leader. We wind up and around the hills for about 8 km (-5 miles). Everything in the forest looks the same to me and probably to most of the others. The dogs love their mountain runs, romping and playing together. They come back for water or treats. 

Eva knows just where she's going. On the first half, the visitors lag behind. Someone gets a cramp and has to wait it out. Another pauses to take pictures. Still others cannot talk and walk at the same time. It takes a couple of hours to climb 4 km (2.5 miles). Beside the trails, local guys are chopping strips from pine bark to harvest the gluey sap in half-coconut shells. It's illegal.
On the way back, Eva keeps everyone together by telling them she's not responsible if they get lost. It's easy to lose track of where we are, with trails going off in every direction. 
When the sun is behind clouds, it's not possible to tell which way we're facing. So the newbies stay within sight of the rest of us. It's much quicker coming back with no long pauses.
Five of us lunch at Sindang Reret, a traditional restaurant with floating boat tables set in ponds. Those are not for us today; after a hike, we don't want to sit on the floor around a short table. We stick to a regular table and chairs. The food is excellent, as is the company.
W's in an experimental mood. He orders a gourami special. "Want to try it?" he asks. Nope. But he says it's good.
It's a busy afternoon with time for a bath before nightfall. I still can't believe we have a tub!

Friday
Sunrise varies during the year from about 5:45-6:15AM in Bandung (6°54'36"S). In the Southern Hemisphere, days are longest in December and shortest in June. The 1m/3' leaves on this roadside plant turn toward the light as the sun comes up.
As W and I walk the dogs, we marvel at the fresh growth on the 6m/19' stub that was left after pruning a few months ago. The bare trunk has a "new tree" bursting out of the top. Everything grows back here.
W goes through tasks with the outside helper. The rhythm of work changes at each residence. It can take staff a while to settle into working efficiently, especially if they're used to long breaks during the day. We share our wifi and everyone has a phone, swiping and scrolling during down time. They may have less time for that here.

We put away the last of the Christmas things. While W puts the trees and decor into storage, I sort through bags of kitchen boxes and Tupperware that were dropped off under the stairs during the move. We're making daily progress. 
The Christmas display made by Ruth turns back into a congklak, a children's game played with shells.
As I scroll back through pictures of the Project to find the decorated 1m/3' congklak, I get cold sweats. What were we thinking? We were unpacking and decorating on December 23 and 24 while expecting a houseful of guests on Christmas Day. How did that even happen? Seems God performed a miracle so we were ready. Whew.

Between it all, we do our work.

Read more:
* Arise, shine; for your light has come, and the glory of the LORD has risen upon you. Isaiah 60:1

* You rule the raging of the sea; when its waves rise, you still them. Psalm 89:9

* And [Jesus] said to them, “Why are you afraid, you of little faith?” Then he got up and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a dead calm. Matthew 8:26

Moravian Prayer: Masterful Creator, you made all that is and gave humans free will, knowing that we would be imperfect and selfish beings. When we try to justify bad behaviors, touch our hearts with Jesus’ words, reminding us that peace comes from forgiveness, not blame. In trust, we pray. Amen.

Monday, January 5, 2026

Happy Epiphany! to all wise men and women

Saturday, January 3, 2026

Kids ask, "Are we there yet?" when the trip feels long. I'm ready to ask that about this move. After a walk, I reorganize the food kitchen before 8AM - all 16 drawers get emptied so " like goes with like," close to where items are used.

I check through old photos - wow this wreck has come a long way! I snap updates from the same angle as the originals to confirm there really have been enormous changes. Yup.

Henry, Lili, and Danny drop by to see if the Project is suitable for seniors activities. They check back in a while: it's too small for their games.
We have lunch with Ari and Brigitte at #NaraPark, a treat all around.
The groomers come for a few hours and make the dogs look good again.
I take a photo of the neighbour's hedge.
A stunner, even before I ask W to stand next to it for scale.
Sunday

I get locked in instead of out of the yard. I'm on a call when W leaves; when I get to the gate, it's been locked from the outside by the satpam. W returns from the hall to open it and let me out.

What a beautiful flower arrangement this morning! Where does #TitikBadudu even get these ideas week after week?

We take a young couple and their little daughter to lunch. Their situation feels familiar: they're suffering "Young Parent Exhaustion," the adjustment of the first year with a wonderful child who has consideration for nothing but her own needs. (All parents have been there! so we sympathize.)
I walk home to get a few steps in. (W went to feed the dogs so has his quota.) He brings the flowers home. The fragrance of lilies and "queen of the night" is delicious and gets stronger as the afternoon goes by.
I recombine the remaining flowers from last week's arrangement into 2 smaller bouquets before taking a break. A bath? The first water I run is brown. Drain and start again. Better.
W puts the bird cages in partial sunshine. It's nice to hear the birds chirping as they did on the old Porch. The yard is growing vigorously with the combination of rain and sun.
What's that on the ground? Starfruit? We have a starfruit tree? (Takes a while to get to know an established garden, right?) There are dozens of yellow fruits on the soil.
It's a gloomy sort of afternoon. The main spaces at the Project face mostly away from the sun so there's daylight but not direct brightness. I keep the curtains open and sit near the windows.

Late in the day, we grab a dog to guard the Project at night. The others get treats - leftovers from an earlier meal. Anton plays fetch, we pick up a few things we need, and then it's evening. Looking ahead at the week, I'm getting excited to take down the Christmas decor and find out what the new normal looks like.

Monday
We attend some meetings first thing in the morning. Walking the dogs stretches our legs and we bring home a few things from the old attic. Mom's still not answering but the caregivers are working with her. She is surrounded by love.

Then it's off to the neighbouring suburb for used bedroom furniture. We're "almost there" in our acquisitions. Very little of what's here is new. Most was new to us 10-11 years ago. We don't get home until mid-afternoon.

Somehow this place is beginning to fit together. "Oh my, you don't have a traditional house," said a recent guest. "It doesn't look at all like we would decorate." Not sure what that means - she likes it, doesn't like it? Looks weird? "Works but feels strange to us?" I think it was the latter.

My design philosophy is simple: persistently gathering what you like defines your style and creates harmony in your home. It doesn't have to cost a lot. (It can't all be junk though!) = Gather useful and beautiful items.

Having neighbours who love flowers helps! Ratna sends over three stunning orchids that she's found in a nursery up north.
They find their way into partly shaded spots.
They're visible from our windows.
I finally put the working tasks for the Project into a staff list. The only way to maintain a space this diverse is to establish a rhythm of upkeep.

Happy Epiphany! Tuesday, January 6
Let's be wise, honouring the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords as did the Magi 2 millennia ago. Read the original story here.

We sometimes order custom sandwiches at the restaurant section of #MomsArtisanBakery, the best in town.
For the past 23 years, Anna has been creating wonderful food. I had no idea this was available in Bandung! when she sends over an Epiphany surprise. I open the box ... to find this treat. A crown? around a flaky pastry-cake.
I crave beauty in its many forms. When creatives put this much thought into their food and surroundings, my heart starts to sing. Anna's items not only look good. They taste as though they come from the finest European bakery.
After a walk and a 6AM meeting, the sun's come up and the birds are singing. We're grateful for the wise men and women in our lives. Their counsel and mentorship continue as they invest in us and our spiritual health. We want to do the same for them and others in this new year. 

Remember, every precious day ahead is already known to God, and every day offers new possibilities for you and me, right? We pray that your 2026 is off to a good start.

Read more:

* The Lord grants peace within your borders. Psalm 147:14

O LORD, do your eyes not look for truth? Jeremiah 5:3

* Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Matthew 5:9

* Beloved, you do faithfully whatever you do for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you. 3 John 5

Moravian Prayer: Prince of peace, call us to be your peacemakers. May the peace we share with this world reflect the peace you give to us each day.

Holy One, help us be faithful brothers and sisters to the stranger in our midst. Where there is a need, may we feed the hungry, quench their thirst, and show them your love, peace, and comfort. Amen.

Saturday, January 3, 2026

Before and After: PART 1- need a remodel for the new year? there's hope

Maybe you feel like you need a fresh start or a personal remodel. More is possible than you can dream today ...

The New Year is a common time to make resolutions and hope for make-overs. I just read my FutureMe letter from a year ago. We were waiting to hear for or against the Project, with our home lease running out in a year. Now the Project is our home and the setting for a new season to share hope and peace.

So let's look back at what's happened at a place that was falling into ruin this time last year. It's hard to believe what we started with. Kudos to Pak Karadi for his trust and the contractors: Pak Ian, Pak Bobby, and Pak Robby who oversaw the rebirth. Thank you for your hard work.

Before (the yard and back of the Project used to flood when it rained):

After
Entry (home to bats, rats, swallows, and cats - plus termites and ants)
After
Before (living room from entry)
After
Before (living room from the other side)
After (defining the step with a cabinet)
Before (dining ceiling)
After
Before (kitchen sink)
After (same sink)
Before (kitchen counter)
After (refinished cabinets)
Before (kitchen)
After (shop lights above; dishes in the science lab cabinet; kitchen island of 2 library tables back-to-back)
Before (dining)
After
Before (dining from staircase)
After (windowsill termites banished, trim boxes removed; library bookshelves added)
Before (dining and kitchen)
After
Before (staircase)
After
Before (bedroom)
After
Before (bathroom with 2 'thrones' and a missing shower)
After:
Before (closet)
After
Changes are not only possible but they are coming whether we feel ready for them to or not. So let's put our hands and hearts into making life beautiful, positive, and useful. (A few days after moving in, we counted on Christmas decor to make the Project look liveable. Now we can't wait to put the seasonal stuff away - more change is a-coming.)
The moral of the story? Don't lose hope. And don't give up too soon. The middle of a transition is usually messy but better things are coming.

Stay tuned for PART 2.