Wednesday, February 18, 2026

3 holidays in 3 days: this happens once in a generation!

Monday, February 16, 2026

What a week. 3 major holidays?

1) Tomorrow is Chinese New Year. I decline an invitation to lunch by an extraordinary chef (yeah, your mama, Josie!) as I've already committed to another.

2) Ash Wednesday begins the season of Lent. A group is going through a wonderful Lent book written by our mutual friend and spiritual director, Dr. Gail Johnson. Find it here. (Comment or PM me if you want to join us.)

3) Thursday is the first day of the Islamic month of Ramadan as celebrated in SE Asia. (It starts on Wednesday in other places.) Technically, Muslims keep working but energy is low in those who are fasting. A final week ends the month-long fast and that week is time off to be with family, similar to American Thanksgiving or Canadian/European Christmas.

We're on our final cleanup of the old house and yard. It's strange to walk into the welcoming neighborhood, knowing it's no longer where we live. After 11 1/2 years of good relations with kind neighbors, thank you, each one.

I pause in my research, heading up the mountain to a Japanese cooking experience with a lovely group of women. 

I completely forget to hand over the money I owe Jenny for lunch Sunday. Sigh. She says it's ok to wait for Sunday. I do hate debts of any kind.
When we get home, someone picks up the inversion table; someone else claims the Japanese portable bathtub that we no longer need.
Everyone has made good progress today. The garbage has been cleared away from the old place. Ibu S has cleaned the upstairs. She's amazing: strong, quick, and focused.
Even the laundry room is empty and clean.
My article's outline gets a good start, too. Tomorrow is another day.

Tuesday - Happy Chinese New Year
First, a meeting online. And breakfast? A chocolate/sweet potato mousse (recipe below), banana bread, and yogurt. With tea, of course.
Then a walk. The 3-storey wall on the other side of the lane has cracked. The ferns and other plants that were allowed to grow this last year are removed. The tall wall is made of stacked, mud-mortared bricks that get plastered over. Two men chip out the cement skim where it has cracked. 
Then they start the laborious work of filling those enlarged channels with new plaster.
I take Juno along and leave the others. PakG will walk with them. I don't have the energy to be pulled off balance when Anton sees a cat. There are many cats on this walk.

We inspect the old house. Both helpers are here: one has told the other, "You must come, even if it's a holiday. I need help!" There's one to two days of cleaning and yardwork before we lock up and leave for good. Friends of the owner live behind the same gate. They come and go at all hours, day and night. So there's always someone watching.
I dither until mid-morning and then get down to work. My desk is the table on the Porch today.

An online search churns out "scholarly data with citations." Oh yeah, helpful but ...? Now to check for accuracy before I dive into the data. I read journal articles, skim books, and scan statistics from various archives. It's absorbing, this learning what others know. I love it. My task is to write a summary essay, collating information that others have gathered. I must cite sources.

The new recipe is Sweet Potato /Chocolate Mousse. This morning, I tuck it into the freezer after chilling it overnight. Doesn't that combo sound awful? Surprise!

At lunch, the helpers and I sample it. They love it as much as I do. Very EASY to make. Don't be too precious about measuring, either,

Here's the recipe:
Ingredients:
2 medium sweet potatoes, baked or steamed, peeled, and mashed
1 small dark chocolate bar, cut or broken into pieces (75-110 gm/3-4 oz)
1/2 c boiling hot water

Instructions:
1. Steep the dark chocolate for a few minutes in the hot water. Then use a hand blender to froth it together.
2. Add the sweet potatoes and blend until fluffy.
3. Divide into ramekins = 3 big or 6 medium *portions.
4. Refrigerate at least 1 hour (or freeze for a healthy chocolate 'ice cream').

*I  used a silicone cupcake tray and filled 6 sections half full. That's PLENTY. It's a rich-tasting, low-calorie dessert. (Average size: 150 calories; big size: 300 calories)

I play my one daily song on the very good keyboard that isn't a piano. I promised myself to play every day. After one song, I'm done. I played for church since I was 9 and later got an associate degree in piano performance. But without a "real piano," there's little motivation to play. With headphones on, I tell myself that it almost sounds the same. (Almost.)

Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
It's the first day of Lent. We'll be reflecting on the beauty and terror of the salvation Jesus won for humanity. How can God love us so much that he is willing to pay the penalty of our sins to satisfy his justice?

A new kind of orchid is blooming where the yardman fastened it to a tree a few weeks ago. Apparently, it's happier there than where it sat for 3 years without flowers.
At the old place, the yardman finishes trimming. The garden is returned to its original state with the addition of a few fruit trees. 
There's more privacy than when we came. We planted the trees to prevent neighbors from overlooking the yard or porch. (This is how it looked when we lived there.)
We're swapping this stunning view.
For this park-like yard. We shifted most of the garden over and planted a low "grass" during the two months before Christmas. It is just starting to fill in.
Years ago, we moved into a 2-bedroom basement flat with 3 kids under 5 years of age. It took a year for W to complete the masters degree he'd started and dropped (pre-kids). That Vancouver yard had no trees. When I asked why, the homeowners explained that they wouldn't plant anything "because we don't plan to stay here long."

Even for a short stay, I'd break up a boring yard with growing things. Who knows, maybe you get lucky and enjoy 11 years of a flourishing garden, as we did in LIPI. Or ... that plain lawn may host you for a decade, like the yard in Vancouver did for those owners. I've been tempted to drive past to see if the next occupants put in a little sliver of paradise that was waiting to happen.

At our old place, the barbecue area is emptied of hanging chairs, swinging bench, and cooking equipment. 
The next person will put their own stamp on it, just as we did.
I send photos of the cleaned inside and trimmed outside to the owners. The next step is collecting keys from everyone who has a copy.
I walk across the main street into a whole new series of villages on the other side of our hill. Imagine if this were the staircase to your front door.
Or what if you had to climb down every day to reach your home? Many locals have knee trouble in old age - the steps are steep, uneven, and necessary when you live on the side of a hill.
Houses are crammed into every available space.
Some extensions sit on pillars mortared into streambeds that channel run-off from the hillsides.
Making up for not hiking this week, I climb a 4-flight stairway to the neighborhood above. Without dogs, focus is easier and the walk is faster - no sniff stops or potty breaks needed.
It's off to work when I get home. The day flies by. I take a short nap in preparation for the wake-up call that will resound from speakers in every neighborhood tonight around 3 AM.

Ramadan comes next. The chanting wakes someone in the household (usually a woman) to prepare food. The meal must be eaten before sunup. Fasting commences during daylight hours. The elderly, the ill, and kids are excluded. Luckily, Indonesia sits near the equator, so day and night are pretty even. Countries in the southern hemisphere have long sunlit days in February, so the obligation is more arduous. (When Ramadan falls in the northern summer, it's the same deal.)

Read more:
Joseph’s brothers said, “Now therefore please forgive the crime of the servants of the God of your father.” Genesis 50:17

* God said, “This is my Son, the Beloved; with him I am well pleased; listen to him!” Matthew 17:5

* Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32

* Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 

Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. Hebrews 3:1-3

Moravian Prayer: Radiant Master, as Joseph forgave his brothers for their jealous actions, may we do the same in our own families. May our acts of personal clemency help heal the divisions within our homes and influence our neighbors toward forgiveness. Amen.

Sunday, February 15, 2026

New endeavours and recovery

Friday, February 13, 2026

We clear the children's area and carport for the start of campus 3 of an English program. We have no idea how many are coming; there's no ibu (neighborhood woman) in charge yet. I'm watching to see who emerges.


We haven't seen this floor since a few weeks ago, before we began the final round of moving. We work hard together to clear away what's been dumped in the space.

I toss salad and the lunch leftovers into the microwave and voila. Supper.
I'm about to post to the Yard Sale with a big food-service shelf that we acquireda long time ago and used for storage. Before I hit send, I consider another option. One of our helpers is a foodie. Maybe her relatives want it? I price it at 1/3 of what I'd ask online.

She responds that her daughter-in-law (or granddaughter-in-law?) would like it. Can they come today? Yes please - but bring at least 3-4 men. It's very heavy. I warn them not to put it down on their flipflops or break their toes by dropping it. It's handed it over in good condition. But.


First, they bump the top on the concrete rafters in the carport. They lift it down and drive the pickup truck onto the driveway to load it again. I hear another crunch when they get to the top of the driveway. They've hit the gate supports and have to lift it down one more time to get under them. 

We go from squeezing past the shelf under the stairs to 


suddenly having space for ...? 
Saturday
I walk the dogs before they eat and nap.
They're tied under the trees, away from the kids and moms who will show up for language class orientation. 
The birds need food: we're almost out. Their chirping and singing are pleasant. Other songbirds fly in, pecking the seeds that fall out of the cages.
I check the classrooms and the supplies before everyone comes. Shibli, who arrives first, chooses the conference room as the classroom. Seen through the window of the young kids' room, the mural makes a nice backdrop.
The conference room gets the new carpets (woven plastic) donated by Dina. (Received with thanks!) When the moms and kids arrive, they sit around the edges.
A half-dozen volunteers do the English orientation. A few newcomers understand some English; others are new to the language. After I welcome them, I go back to work.
After orientation, the volunteers take the kids and moms into the nearby villages to recruit more learners. It's a perfect day with high clouds shading the hottest sun. The wind stirs the trees.
After an hour or so, the pat pat of children's feet slaps down the driveway. They grab their things and off they go again. 

A look at traffic from drones reminds us why we don't go into town on Saturdays. (7:42 AM)
This is near the toll road that comes from Jakarta and the Bandung suburbs. No, thank you. Those merges, those 3-cars-in-2-lanes? We've never learned to drive it.
One of the plagues here is that people burn yard waste and garbage. Thick smoke drifts over from the neighbor mid-day, right into the house.
Sunday
The prayer room has verses that remind us of our heritage in God. This one speaks of the unchanging love and kindness God shows his children.
Chandra leads the Gathering. The guests stand to introduce themselves and their hometowns. Some have deep family roots in Bandung.
A few attend sister congregations - Bali, Jakarta, etc. We take pics to send to their pastors.
Titik's flowers anticipate Chinese New Year and Valentine's Day (just past), and the love we celebrate as the Body of Christ.
A closer look is even more interesting. The red pussy willows are a traditional Chinese celebration stem.
#TitikBadudu says roses are expensive this week. In addition to the Chinese New Year on Tuesday, both Lent and Ramadan (a month of Muslim fasting during the day) start on Wednesday. This one-in-a-generation confluence of holidays last happened in the 1990s.
Jenny invites us to lunch in a new art museum. We walk down and meet in the cafe upstairs.
We get a menu, but they're out of nearly everything. They have fries, siu mai, and rawan soup. So that's what we order. Not bad, but the view of the neighborhoods from the top of the museum is spectacular.
I briefly glance at the art, including this runner on the table. The pattern is woven between thin strips of bamboo.
The dogs are happy roaming the yard, welcoming me home with enthusiasm. After some work, it's time for relaxation.

Want a bath? The shower offers a small stream of warm water and the tap in the tub is only cold. For a hot bath, you schlep pails of hot water from the shower at the far end of the upstairs hall, which has a gas heater. It's good exercise. I fill 6 buckets, walking back down with each.

The last pail is reserved as a hot refill when the water cools down. 
The orchids have enjoyed a patch of rain to quench their roots.

A week of work lies ahead. Good thing God mandated a Sabbath rest. It's one gift I like to spend fully. How about you?

Read more:
The word of the Lord came to [Jeremiah], saying, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you,    before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

“Alas, Sovereign Lord,” [Jeremiah] said, “I do not know how to speak; I am too young.”


But the Lord said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord. Jeremiah 1:4-8


* Looking at his disciples, [Jesus] said: 

“Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.

Blessed are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied.

Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.

Blessed are you when people hate you, when they exclude you and insult you and reject your name as evil, because of the Son of Man. Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their ancestors treated the prophets." Matthew 6:20-23


Prayer: God, you love us and see us. Help us to trust you. You will take care of us, no matter what our circumstances. Help us to faithfully follow you, loving others as you do. We thank you for your protection and provisions. Amen.