Friday, April 29, 2022

3 things plus a question: weathering the end of a season

The Muslim month of fasting is almost done. This coming Monday, Ramadan is over with a bang. Or rather, many bangs. Firecrackers will go off all night. People are feasting and visiting. Speakers will broadcast prayers and chants until daybreak. You can either stay awake or sleep with industrial earplugs. 

For those of us who celebrate the death and resurrection of Jesus, this is the second week of Easter. My heart is sparking louder than fireworks, happier than those eating big big meals, and more grateful for God's provision than I could imagine. Immersion in the Big Story of scripture does that to you! 

1. Immerse yourself in the scriptures - you'll find yourself there

One of the things I enjoy is listening to is a big chunk of scripture. Not just a verse or chapter, but books of the Bible. Last week, when the night sounds picked up and sleep was impossible, I listened from Acts through the end of Revelation. I'm almost through Genesis, the story of Abraham and his children. 

Now there's a Story and encouragement for the ages! Gives you hope and instructions for living a full and righteous life. I encourage you to make scripture your go-to when you feel tired or worn - or when you want to worship and celebrate God's goodness.

2. Treat every detour as an adventure - even when you're so hot and tired you can hardly put one foot in front of the other. A tough experience makes a good story later on.

Thursday, February 29, 2022 

We walk. We love our mountain walks every Thursday.

Today we head for the Dutch forts in the hills. The concrete bunkers were tunneled into the mountainsides to repel enemy invaders of WWII, and then used until 1945 by both Dutch and Indonesian troops during the War of Independence.

We pause an hour into the walk to share slices of banana bread, baked by IbuA. Cocoa loved banana bread and would hunt down the last crumb when I tossed her a piece. It's a good tribute and a fun memory. Roni snaps a picture.

The views are breathtaking on our side trip to the Independence monument atop the next hill. 
There are no guardrails so we won't back up all the way to the edge of the courtyard for our selfie.
Like in the USA, Indonesia's national bird is the eagle or garuda.
After we go past the Dutch forts, we walk. And walk. It's not unusual to miss the turnoffs, especially during rainy season when the intersections of trails are overgrown. While Veronica's internal compass says, "turn somewhere near here," W's GPS says, "keep going." 
We get to the edge of the next hill and have to turn back - we can see where we want to be on the other side of the valley. The slopes are too steep to go straight across. 

Somehow we miss the turnoff to the well-worn path again. We end up on a wet-clay track. It's covered in inches of bamboo leaves - we marvel at the beautiful stands of bamboo, even as we slip and slide our way over the hard dry leaves atop the mud.

Wow, it's slick and very narrow where the trail has washed away or slidden downhill. We jab our walking sticks into the muck and proceed with caution.
Gypsy sticks nearby. He misses the companion who loped ahead with him.
The fungi and flowers are beautiful everywhere you look.
We have less than a half hour at home, just enough time to gulp down lunch, shower off grime and sweat, change our clothes, and head out the door. We're introducing friends to each other at Vilo, the gelato place up the street.
The ice cream is good and the company is even better. Josh introduces Yoel to #Latingate, a coaching program that empowers young entrepreneurs. Esther and I are happy to see each other - and the kids have shot up a few inches since we saw them last.

On the way home, we see that the scaffolding along the high wall on the lane is removed. The bricks have been mortared back in and plastered over where they were hammed out for the cross-braces of the scaffolding. The next phase of brick-wall covering will be after the Ramadan break ends.
3. Be grateful for everything you learn - about people and their values

Friday
Kristi and I have an online culture lesson with 55 participants. What are funerals and burials like for Muslims in Indonesia? We spend most of the time discussing expat experiences. We would have liked to know more about family rituals, foods served, how the body is wrapped, who comes to the funeral and how the service is conducted ... but we learned a few things. The burial is within 24 hours of death. Experienced neighbors are tasked for the job of wrapping the corpse.
The morning gets away. I need a flower arrangement for the weekend. There aren't a lot of blooms in the yard but there's a lot of red in leaves, bromeliad centers, and anthuriums. I have no time to arrange them and toss them into the sink. We leave that until tomorrow. I quickly pour water over the oasis to soak it.

We spend much of the day in the city. Kristi hasn't been to fabric markets yet. It's time to acquire batiks to make some clothing while she's here. She finds a bunch of lively patterns and I find 2 pieces for a blouse or loose dress. Mine is $14 total. Made-in-Indonesian quilting cottons sold by JoAnn Fabrics and other American shops are here but that's not the point. We're looking for batik, the resist-dyed cotton popular in every part of Indonesia.

W has heard from friends about a good Italian food stall. Since it's fasting month and we're eating at noon, we have most of the foodcourt to ourselves. It IS yummy.

Saturday 
Today is a serious workday. I wake early but am immediately diverted. Bailey has pooped in his crate - a first. W washes the crate and I help wash down the dog. "If you didn't know I loved you before, you know it now," he mutters, gagging.

His gag reflex reminds me of the 12 years when I was scraping toddler poop off the 4 kids' bottoms (while he was at the office.) I'm grateful for 2 things as I soap down Bailey's wet white hair: glad I don't have diapers lying around and glad that W's helping. He is one in a million. I toss the scrubbed-down laundry into the machine and hang it to dry on the covered rooftop.

The backyard is awash in green. The lemon-grass is over a meter high and the ponds are bursting with plants. I feed the fish and birds and brush out the rapidly-drying Bailey before heading inside to work.
The guava branches have silvered in their metal stands. They are hung with this and that, including orchids and a pony-tail plant.
Oh oh, I have to tackle the flower arrangement for tomorrow. Our usual florist is on holiday but I've left her armature tied to the empty vase. I think of a basic shape and poke coleus, red anthuriums, bromeliads, and vines into the oasis. It's tall (1 meter, 39") - I worry about tipping the vase when it's top-heavy. (The glass vase is 14" high.) The guys drop it off at the hall.
Once that's out of the way, I toss my batik yardage into the sink to soak and swirl out the excess dye, before hanging it on the rack to dry. Time to write.

The rain pours down. Oh oh, PakG and the dogs are walking their loop. Meanwhile, W's walking downtown. I watch the shafts of water fall from the sky from my perch at the desk. It's hard enough that you can take pictures of the drops - can you see them mid-air?
After a few minutes, the sun comes out and the pavement is steaming. That's why everything is so green ... 

QUESTION: what good - what wise or lovely new thing - has come from a downpour in your own life?

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[Today, a reflective poem by Job, a man who lost everything: wealth, family, and reputation]


But where can wisdom be found?

    Where does understanding dwell?

 

No mortal comprehends its worth;

    it cannot be found in the land of the living.

 

The deep says, “It is not in me”;

    the sea says, “It is not with me.”

 

It cannot be bought with the finest gold,

    nor can its price be weighed out in silver.

 

It cannot be bought with the gold of Ophir,

    with precious onyx or lapis lazuli.

 

Neither gold nor crystal can compare with it,

    nor can it be had for jewels of gold.

 

Coral and jasper are not worthy of mention;

    the price of wisdom is beyond rubies.

 

The topaz of Cush cannot compare with it;

    it cannot be bought with pure gold.

 

Where then does wisdom come from?

    Where does understanding dwell?

 

It is hidden from the eyes of every living thing,

    concealed even from the birds in the sky.

 

Destruction and Death say,

    “Only a rumor of it has reached our ears.”

 

God understands the way to it

    and he alone knows where it dwells,

 

for he views the ends of the earth

    and sees everything under the heavens.

 

When he established the force of the wind

    and measured out the waters,

 

when he made a decree for the rain

    and a path for the thunderstorm,

  

then he looked at wisdom and appraised it;

    he confirmed it and tested it.


 And he said to the human race,

    “The fear of the Lord—that is wisdom,

    and to shun evil is understanding.” (Job 28:12-28)

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Goodbye as the world turns

Sunday, April 24, 2022

The first BIC on-site Watch Party is a success. Green Gate loans us their round tables. The format is different for a Sunday morning. We allow time for discussion after each segment of a video talk. The lively conversation and treats are a pleasure. I fight to stay present.

We're at lunch when the dreaded call comes. It's an unknown number. When I hear, anging yang mati - (the dog who is dead), I hand the phone to an Indonesian friend. He listens and translates the message: our beautiful dog Cocoa has been found. She went missing Thursday on our hike in the mountains. The man sends pictures: he has pulled her out of an irrigation chute.

It is not the answer we were hoping for. What sadness - we miss her waving tail and happy disposition. Gypsy lies down on her spot on the porch every day. Yet we also feel relief that we know what happened - and that she was not snatched, neglected, or abused. Her death was likely very quick.

The world doesn't stop for anything. It keeps turning.

Monday

PakG meets the man who located Cocoa. He exchanges her collar for the reward we promised. We're grateful to the villagers who combed the mountain looking for her for 4 days. Our special thanks to dear walking friends who also hiked the hills for 2 extra days to see if she could be found. 

She is buried in the forest where she loved to run.

I meet online with friends in the early morning and talk to my mom between calls. That helps. I feel frozen inside = my usual protective mechanism. We truly miss Cocoa's bounce and her running up to us ...  every time we look through the open doors to where Gypsy waits.
Friends send "last pictures" and "favorites" - they make me smile. Good doggie.
Veronica sends a pic of the last time they hiked the volcano.
Other memories remind me that she was a lover not a fighter.

Language school starts online at 11:30. I can hardly hear the language teacher where I sit on the porch. Our birds chirp away with all their might and multiple speakers from the mosques on both hills broadcast the lunch-hour chants.

When the 2 dogs alert that a package has arrived at the gate (wholesale barking!), I give up and move inside for the second and third sets of vocabulary. I write down the words - thank God for phonetic spelling. They don't make sense until I'm alone and can focus.

I take the late afternoon off to read and reflect. We don't have to wonder any longer - but closure does not equate comfort. I'm indebted to Elizabeth Love of Bali #balipoodledoodle for the retirement years she let Cocoa spend at our house.

Tuesday
For our team meeting, most prefer to meet online. After, Kristi and I head down the mountains to language school. We learn about money.
In the evening, we have a buka Puasa (breaking the fast) dinner at the school. I understand much of going on, though we are junior learners to everyone else. I'm surprised that the student speak English to each other, not Indonesian. 

First, we hear the prayers. The meaning of Ramadan for Indonesian Muslims? They hope that God will forgive and transform their hearts.
The appointed hour is determined by religious leaders according the position of the sun and moon. We line up for appetizers: dates, a fresh-fruit drink, plus fried tofu and fritters. Yum.

Next we are handed a box full of chicken, rice, fruit, pickled vegetables, and more. There's homemade sambal (spicy sauce) of course! It's catered by one of the leader's moms. Wow, she knows how to cook!
Wednesday
On the teras, W spots a giant beetle on its back, legs kicking. He lets it climb onto the extra dog dish and releases it into the garden.
We walk around the long block before an early breakfast date at Nara. The noodles and pot of oolong tea are my go-tos.
The yard man is hard at work next door when we leave for the city. We are privileged to be invited to a pastors prayer meeting downtown. It's surprising how much we understand, with W doing Duolingo and me in language school the past month. W walks the city afterward. He rushes home when the LG technician arrives (without notice) with the par to repair our fridge.

Except that it's the wrong part (after 2 weeks). "We'll call you tomorrow," they say.

Wednesdays, Kristi assists at a children's school before classes, so we meet at IEP for our session. We are given a whole set of words that neither of us have context for - so we go over and over them, without much success. We can point to them when the teacher says them. Then we're supposed to say them but we have no idea of what they are. The teacher is patient and giggles when we randomly spew out syllables.

"Next time, let's ask our teacher to give us a bunch of words to study at home, without the pressure of class," we agree. Once we listen and think about things at home, the words make sense and become our own. Today was an ongoing tangle of syllables.

Example: memperbaikan - (= repair), which is pronounced mem per ba i kan ... Hmmm. I know that baik means "good (in conjunction to people)" - so that's a memory assist. The rest are more random.

Indonesians pronounce every letter. We have no trouble with the correct spelling because Bahasa Indonesia has fixed sounds (like German does). Ah, who knew those childhood Saturday morning German classes would be useful 50 years later?!

Kristi keeps track of the recordings and send them to me every day. This is about half of the day's work.
The screen protector on her IPhone 11 cracks, falling as she stumbles over an uneven surface. We check at two phone stores on the way home for a replacement. One has models "all the way up to IPhone 5." Another has none, period.

We also make a quick stop at Jogja Grocer for ceker (chicken feet). Those act like toothbrushes for the dogs. Their teeth are getting stinky since I ran out of raw chicken 3 weeks ago (and have forgotten to stock up.)

Whole broiler chickens are cheaper than ceker (@$2.20 each). The butcher hacks each chicken into 8 pieces and tosses them in bags. The dogs are delighted to "go search," when we toss a piece for each into the backyard. Only Cocoa is missing - she was ruthless in sniffing out every little piece of food.

We toss the remaining pieces on a cookie sheet to cool in the freezer overnight. We'll put the pieces in a bag once they're frozen and dole out one at a time.
Tomorrow we walk. The group has planned a special trek that Cocoa enjoyed. Friday we will have online class only, dealing with culture and customs. Maybe we will have time to breathe. God knows it is a welcome pause.

Next week is the "all-out holiday" across the country. People joke that it's the most hazardous week of the year = when car owners drive themselves around the cities. The drivers and helpers go mudik, making their annual trip home to family. It's similar to Christmas visits for Canadians and Thanksgiving holidays for Americans.

This year is the first permitted mudik in 3 years ... the last 2 were restricted/cancelled by order of the government, due to Covid. So everyone is going back to their villages - except for those whose employers refuse to let them go. Those will have to serve the guests who will come; perhaps they get time off another week.

Pray with us for protection on all who travel and those who remain home. And pray that the Presence of God would be among those who seek him.

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*Hold fast to the Lord your God, as you have done to this day. Joshua 23:8

*Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth rejoice, and let them say among the nations, “The Lord is king!” 1 Chronicles 16:31

*The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run into it and are safe. Proverbs 18:10

*Jesus said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded you.” Matthew 28:18-20

*Not that we are competent of ourselves to claim anything as coming from us; our competence is from God. 2 Corinthians 3:5

Moravian Prayer: Lord God, you have called us in faith to serve humanity by proclaiming the gospel of Jesus Christ. Today, we pledge to turn to you anew as the source of our being and the inspiration of our service.

Gracious Lord and God, keep your children sound in doctrine and holy in life. May everyone who serves the church be faithful, not only in great matters, but also in the smallest things … to our life’s end. Amen.

Saturday, April 23, 2022

Counting up losses

Cocoa, our standard poodle, disappears without a trace into the forest during our Thursday hike. Our friends help us search for her for hours every day. We offer a high reward so the kids of the surrounding villages are looking for her, too.


This is, as we say, "A Week!!"

The fridge is still out. W swaps in bottles of ice and runs a fan inside to keep a few things cool. We're haven't heard a thing from LG about the new tech board they said they'd order. Nothing from their technician either. So the fridge is somewhat cooler than room temp but still off after a week and a half. 

We write "do not open" on the doors so the helper doesn't go searching inside. They rarely cook for us during Ramadan since they're not eating. We order a cheap lunch or have ramen most days.

Tuesday

The yardman and PakG find a small poisonous coral tip snake in our driveway.

It flips over to show its underbelly when touched. And it is soon disposed of.

Wednesday

Some workmen are redoing the drainage ditches along the main street nearby. They cut the mud and rocks out with picks and shovels. Piles of dirt sit on the side of the road, washing into the street every time it rains.

By the end of the week, they're setting a concrete "U" in place and covering it with another concrete slab. All the way down the street. It creates a narrow channel for the runoff from houses and pavement. We'll see what happens when it really rains ... which it does often.

With daily afternoon downpours, this Japanese tea from Sayaka hits the spot. Many people ask for prayer this week - there's "a lot going on" with their health, finances, and relationships during this season.

Thursday

We go up past Dusun Bambu for our weekly walk in the mountains. It starts to pour rain. Most of us have raincoats so we pull them on. About 20 minutes in, I whistle for the dogs who trot ahead and scare off critters and snakes. Gypsy runs back to us as usual but Cocoa's nowhere in sight. 

We call and whistle for her. She's normally glued to Gypsy's side and comes running back with him - but there's no answer. W, Maddie, Max, and I trek back uphill along the rock path; the dogs were running on the dirt beside the trail. Nothing.

There's no trace of her - and Gypsy is no Lassie. The dogs know two commands for sure because they always result in treats: "Go find" (retrieve a toy or ball) and "Go search" (sniff and find food or treats.) If they haven't found everything, we say, "where is it?!" with urgency and they go back to look some more.  

When we tell Gypsy, "Go find Cocoa," "Where is Cocoa?!" and "Go search, where's Cocoa?"  he doesn't point or sniff any area in particular and doesn't run in a direction. He jogs nearby as he aways does. I keep whistling and everyone is calling her name.

The group comes back up from the waterfall to call and search together. Angie, Kristi, and I head downriver along the bank and through the jungle. With rain falling, the river churns along but there are eddies and calm spots all along the bank. If Cocoa fell in, we hope she can pull herself back on shore.

We climb, call, and whistle. I'm glad I have my walking sticks to stab into the slick mud as we slide up and down the trails. The rocks and roots we climb over are slippery with water and moss. Some of the bridge are coming apart but they hold as cross over and cross back on the path. By the end, we've done 72 flights of elevation and 7 km.

And no response. Finally, we meet the others at the car. Most go home but Beba, Maddie, and Max head for the other side of the river to call for Cocoa and notify friends who live nearby. W, Kristi and I spend a few more hours on the roads on both sides of the river, asking people if they've seen Cocoa or someone taking her away.

We offer them a sizable reward if they find her so the young villagers and teens head into the mountains to search the jungle and trails they know well. They go out today, Friday, and Saturday. No sight of our beautiful doggie.

Friends and hashers (trail runners) spread the news on social media. Many continue to check online to see if someone captured her and is selling her online. We get no news, other than 2 spam texts (promo for an expensive witch doctor who casts spells to find pets; and someone wanting to do our house renovation. Ugh.) We go to bed with heavy hearts.

Friday

In the morning, our friends comb the hills again for the missing Cocoa. Elizabeth (the wonderful breeder who shared her with us) creates a poster. Alice gets a stack of those laminated at the printer and we post them everywhere: in the hills, villages, near the pet market, and neighborhoods. Other friends and hash groups are watching for her and monitoring social media.

We leave home at 10:45. While we're in language class, W and Gum go to the pet market, talk to vendors, and post notices. We walk the neighborhoods and ask people if they've seen her.

Kristi and I beg our language teacher for a review day. My head is too foggy for new info. It's very useful and reminds of what we've learned already and how it can be used. I'm just throwing together sentences that make sense in context but aren't the rote conversations we're learning.

We review the Q&As. When asked to respond to: "Ibu Kristi has spilled water on her legs," I say "She should get a towel." Nope, the correct answer us: "Give her a dry rag"... 

I try again with the only thing that comes to mind. "A dry rag - run!" The teacher bursts out laughing. It would be my first response to our kids: "Run, get a towel!" My head's just not in the game.

To finish, we write numbers. Three hundred forty two million, five hundred three thousand, nine hundred ninety-nine. You can imagine how long it takes us to write the numerals. Then we spell the words. We muddle through and say aloud what we've written one more time.

We're home about 3:00. The expat supermarket where everyone used to post notices (#TokoSetiabudi) has refused to let us put up a poster. Boo. They will have a lot of traffic this weekend.

We make lunch and spend the rest of the day monitoring media and answering texts. No one has seen Cocoa. Elizabeth is most helpful with her ideas and we get other good suggestions. We pursue them all. And go to bed exhausted. 

The God of heaven and earth who made the creatures knows where she is. We appeal to him for the safe return and comfort of our doggie, along with many friends who are praying.

Saturday

Up early, we walk, talk to people, and share more posters with neighbors who have connections in Lembang, where Cocoa disappeared. W goes to the pet market before and after a lunch appointment. The vendors promise to call him if she shows up. Pray with us - she's a senior who deserves a peaceful retirement.

Our other two dogs stay close to us. Gypsy lies down in Cocoa's usual spot, watching for his buddy.

Read more:

*Come and hear, all you who fear God, and I will declare what He has done for my soul. I cried to Him with my mouth, and He was extolled with my tongue. If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear. But certainly God has heard me; He has attended to the voice of my prayer. Blessed be God, who has not turned away my prayer, nor His mercy from me! Psalm 66:16-20

*I stretch out my hands to you; my soul thirsts for you like a parched land. Psalm 143:6

*Hate evil and love good, and establish justice in the gate; it may be that the Lord, the God of hosts, will be gracious.Amos 5:15

*Live as children of light—for the fruit of the light is found in all that is good and right and true. Ephesians 5:8-9

*Let everyone who is thirsty come. Let anyone who wishes take the water of life as a gift. Revelation 22:17

Moravian Prayer: Lord of hosts, when the difference between right and wrong becomes unclear, bring to light the injustices that keep us from a true and heartfelt worship of you. Living Water, fountain of life, flowing stream, buoy our vessels. May your blessings equip us to be “agents of your transforming love in the world… through spiritual growth, community, and mission.” Amen.

Sunday, April 17, 2022

Happy Easter - a week to remember

 Monday - Wednesday, April 11-13, 2022

Language school is good. Our heads are spinning as we converse and listen to sentences. It's amazing how much more I already understand in basic conversations outside of class, too. In just over 3 weeks, we've learned so much.

As the flowers from last Sunday fade, I make two final bouquets with the longest-lasting blooms.

Sam and Shellie leave for home Monday. Team meeting on Tuesday is refreshing for my soul, as usual. And Wednesday is a crusher: we review Indonesian words and ways to say things.

The fridge dies, full of food. W orders ice and we try to keep things cool. The tradesman takes one look and says, "It's under warranty. Call LG." So W does. They say it may be days before a guy shows up.

Trying not to open the fridge, we go out to Maxi's Restaurant for supper. I'm astonished tot see that a tree, with all its branches cut off 6 months ago, has miraculously regenerated.

Thursday

A walk in the hills. I never want to go - but I never regret going. W stays home in case the LG refrigerator repairman comes. He doesn't.

We meet up with the other cars high in the hills. For some reason the driver puts on the hazard lights. Kristi flips them off as soon as we notice, but its' killed the car battery. It has to be jumped back into action. We drive the last miles over the bumpy terrain to the drop zone. Today's walk is point to point, not a loop; its 7 km are mostly downhill. Hurrah.

I take the 2 big dogs along the trail of Tebing Karaton, an overlook of the Lembang Fault. Some day there will be a big eruption and catastrophe along the faultiness. Today we're safe. The dogs chase monkeys, bark at other dogs, and have a good run.

There are monkeys everywhere today - including at the overlook into the fault.

Good Friday
In the morning, W and I run errands in the neighboring city. It's our first day in ages that has no formal agenda. He's picking up a garage sale dehumidifier to ward off the mold growing in his office. I have other things on my list.

Josh has a new recipe for coffee-sauced beef. They invite us over for lunch - which is delicious! It's great to see their beautiful home as well.
While we sit around the table, the calls come: friends are on their way to hospital to welcome their baby boy. And another call comes in: a dear friend has died.

A few minutes later, we get another call: can we perform the first funeral service tonight? We say yes. And look at each other wide-eyed. (That service is postponed to tomorrow - whew.)
W starts assembling the online Easter service for the weekend when we get home. I spend 5 hours online in the evening. Flowers, programs, and other details fly back and forth on WA and calls. As much as possible, I delegate and ask questions to make sure everything is covered and done the way the family wants it. What are the protocols for funerals here? We balance Indonesian, Western, and several cultures between to decide what will happen.

Saturday
W and Pak G get the car battery checked and get the flower arrangement for tomorrow's Easter service. The florist is away for the weekend and has made the bouquet in advance. During our back-and-forth messages, she has offered me a flower-arranging course so we can do our own bouquets.

I tell her I don't have time for another class right now, so she hopes we may have other volunteers. "How much? How long? How many people would take it?"

Texts go back and forth. I don't get answers yet, though. Asking questions is very complicated here. "Only one thing per text. You can't send a list," W admonishes.

We've arranged for pickup from her friend's house this morning - the guys then drop the flowers at the hall.
I'm still working on the funeral services for tonight and tomorrow. I write the script for the program a dozen times, revising and revising again as we get more information. Our "right hand" admin Alice doesn't complain - she orders the flowers and gets the programs printed.
I need a nap and have my alarm set to meet Alice in the early afternoon, but Gypsy wakes me 10 min early by bursting into the room - he knows how to open the lever door handles. He's terrified of thunderstorms. Yes, there's a rainstorm.

Just in case, since I've woken, I check my WA messages: oh oh, Alice and a group are already waiting for me. I jump off the bed, pull on shoes and a raincoat, and speed-walk through the downpour to the office.

The middle-school students and their teacher Miss Bernadette are doing a community service project and we are the lucky recipients. They pile boxes of donations in the back room - those will be distributed soon to neighbors and the needy.
In the early evening we head to the Boromeus funeral home. They have one medium-sized meeting room with three doors at the front of the hall, labeled A, B, and C. The light is on above A, where Inge lies. Fortunately, there are no other burials in process. (The hall is shared, so times are staggered when more than one lies in repose.)

Inge was a brilliant and beloved member of BIC - a PhD in Psychology who lived with polio and finally succumbed yesterday. Her family comes from Jakarta and Bandung to celebrate a wonderful person, their oldest sister.
The flowers Alice has ordered are beautiful.
Chandra translates culture and language into Indonesian as we speak. After W and I conduct the memorial service, the family puts Inge's brace, some personal items, and sentimental things in her coffin. We line up to pay our respects. Each person sprinkles fragrant oil around the body. The family distributes a boxed meal, and the casket is sealed.
EASTER SUNDAY
It's a full house today - what a treat to see many faces we haven't encountered for the 2 years of the pandemic. Kristi calls the kids to the front. She tells the story of Easter with Jelly Beans she brought from the USA. What a compelling way to share the Good News!
After we preach, we clear the hall for the Celebration of Life service for Inge among her BIC peers.
The flowers come into the hall along with the bier.
We had planned to start at 11:00 but the family urges us to start immediately. The rain is imminent. Again, Chandra ably translates - this time into Indonesian for the English speakers, and back again into English for the Indonesian speakers.
The family gives food boxes to those in attendance. And then we jump into Chandra's red truck for a ride down the mountain into the city. The graves are dug wherever there's a space between others. There's no order to it - no rows.

"It can be quite tricky," Chandra warns us. "Watch your step." He's right. To get to Inge's resting place, the young bearers hoist the coffin high on their shoulders and walk between and over the graves.

Most tombs are edged in granite with carvings and raised crosses or symbols on them. We follow the coffin through a maze of stone ledges, grass patches, and mud. Some places are 6" wide, just big enough to put your shoe down. We step up and across, down and around. Sometimes we step 2' up or down, sometimes we walk across the graves to get to the next area.
W delivers the final prayers as I film the graveside for the family. There's a deep hole with 2 planks across it, on which the box is set.

When the graveside service is over, the young men loop a rope under each end of the coffin, lift, and someone pulls out the wood. They lower the casket into the hole and pull out the ropes from the ends. The flower bouquets are place on top of it before the family and friends gather around to toss rose petals and fragrant jasmine in.
Then the young men close the hole with picks and shovels while we stand and watch. We've prayed that the rain would hold off - and the slight drizzle at the end is easily dealt with: a younger sister distributes packs of raincoats to everyone. We climb back over the graves to the street.

"It's traditional for Chinese families to have a meal together afterward," Chandra explains. We are invited to an excellent restaurant, complements of a family friend. The whole day was blessed - what hope the followers of Jesus have. It would have been Inge's 76th birthday today, the day we lay her to rest. What a gift, to be with God.
When we get home, there's a crowd on the porch. They've had lunch together and hang around until almost 6pm. W and I talk for a while, but after 4:00 I pull myself away to study and prepare for the week to come. So many of them are precious young friends - we indulge in hugs and hellos.

As night falls, I think of the family who will shed many tears for their older sister. And I marvel at young Lucas, whose sisters will adore and spoil him - one coming, one going on this beautiful Easter weekend.
Read more:
*When David’s time to die drew near, he charged his son Solomon, saying: “I am about to go the way of all the earth. Be strong and keep the charge of the Lord your God.” 1 Kings 2:2-3

*Turn my heart to your decrees, and not to selfish gain. Psalm 119:36

*Why do you look for the living among the dead? Jesus is not here, but has risen. Luke 24:5

*For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. John 3:16

*Jesus, the risen Lord, said, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I send you.” John 20:21

*Jesus Christ humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death—even death on a cross. Philippians 2:8

Moravian Prayer: Suffering Servant, in the dark night, be our rock, our refuge, and our strength. Assure us once again that darkness cannot overtake your eternal light. Have mercy, O Lord, on us and our offenses. Sustain us, Spirit of God.

Oh Glorious God! death is not the end. You revealed the emptiness of the tomb to all of the created order. Alleluia! We rejoice in the precious and holy gift of your presence forever and ever through our risen Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.