Sunday, January 31, 2021

Pack up for quarantine!

 And so it goes. Before we know it, our visits end. We're on the move back to Indonesia before we know it.

Monday, January 25, 2021

It's goodbye week. We go from meeting to meeting today - we start with a covid saliva test (the results come back too soon so we'll have to redo it). We meet college friends for lunch.

We drive an hour north for a walk along the river with dear Jessa and Lucian.
Friends Terry and Debbie come over for supper. Melissa cooks our traditional family feast - spätzle and chicken cutlets or schnitzel. Oh, she's amazing. (If your daughter-in-law is less wonderful, our condolences. We're so blessed by her!)

Tuesday

We have a second covid test, more meetings, and almost finish packing. We've been tossing things into suitcases for the past week. We weigh, redistribute, and reweigh, more than once.

I'm bringing back art and craft supplies besides teaching materials and personal items. There are heavy things like books, markers, fabric, and new shoes for walking. Why shoes? I've walked the soles off many pairs of shoes in the last 6 years; Indonesian roads are rough and the quality we can get here doesn't hold up to the miles we put on our shoes. 

There are light things like skeins of wool, pens, and Trader Joes popcorn. Yes, I brought a bag of sweet and salty popcorn for the day when I miss Seattle.

This past week, Melissa has cooked up a perfect storm of steak, German food, and other family specialties . We've probably gained weight, even with daily walks. I've tried for 3 miles a day because we're going into a C-19 quarantine - lockdown in a hotel room - for 5 days after we arrive in Jakarta.

Our son Jonathan drops by in the evening. It's SO good to see him. We've enjoyed time with Timo, Melissa, and the grandchildren. We call the others - Kirsten, Jeremy and Rebekah. Distancing and stay-in-place is hard on connections! We miss the hugs.

Wednesday

We wrap up our time in Seattle by repacking once or five times more! It's a day with family, including a morning tea party. We give the  kids a few more gifts. One is a wooden balancing puzzle. Le is the star - he has creative ways to keep his pieces on top of each other.

The kids work hard to try not to topple their stacks. Isa is focused.
Miss K stacks hers easily and poses in her Indonesian batik wrap-skirt.
On our final walk, I peek into the local Little Free Library and pick up a stack of board books for little Mac to read. They can return them when she's done.

And of course there's laundry to do. After the bedding is washed and dried, it's tucked back under the sofa bed until our next visit.

Timo drops us to an airport hotel in late afternoon; snow was predicted and our flight is early - no sense in taking chances. We wave goodbye to the family from their porch - and we're on our way home. We call our other children to say goodbye.

Thursday 
We get to the airport early with a 5am shuttle from the hotel. It takes a half-hour to check our paperwork at the counter. Indonesia is being very strict on documentation for covid testing and visas. Air Canada staff is polite and helpful.
We leave Seattle about 9am, landing for an hour or two in Vancouver before flying along the mountains of the eastern Pacific coastline. The flight map is so interesting - we hug the coast of Alaska, cross over Tokyo and near Taiwan, and land in Hong Kong. On a flat-earth map, we're going the long way but in real geography, it's a straight line over the top of the sphere.
The long flight - almost 15 hours - has 30 passengers. We each take a row of 3 seats and stretch out. I sleep 4 or 5 hours! (That's a wonder, prob because people are praying for us.) Between naps, I read and watch the Mr Rogers movie, Beautiful Neighborhood. It touches me and elicits heartfelt thanksgiving for my wonderful father, who loved and affirmed us. I feel so privileged as his daughter. I lay across the seats, my mask hiding the tears streaming down my cheeks as I thank God for godly, loving parents.

In Hong Kong, two Chinese officials meet us at the gate with a sign: To Jakarta. That would be us ... and 3 more disembarking passengers. They take us on a rapid walk through hallways, one stop by train, and then send us through immigration and security. We make it to the new gate for a final check of documents and boarding. Whew - we would never have found our way alone in the short layover!

We're only about 80 people on the flight to Jakarta, meaning we get another row to ourselves. Hurrah - good for passengers, awful for airlines. This is unsustainable, but not having air travel seems unthinkable. We arrive in Indonesia before midnight (9am Pacific - have been underway about 24 hours from the first flight).

We sit in long rows for 45 minutes after filling out our health report. Chairs are a meter apart, one behind the other. Hmmm. Officials take us to the immigration line, where we're met by a helper who assists us through immigration and customs.
A taxi whisks us to the Millennium hotel to begin 5 days of quarantine. The hotel doesn't have adjoining rooms available, but we've told them we each need a desk. (It won't hurt to have our own bathrooms either.)
I take pictures in the foyer, since we can't see this until next week. The wood carvings are spectacular.
The hotel puts us in neighboring rooms. They promise to arrange rooms with a connecting door tomorrow. I read until 2am and fall fast asleep in the clean comfy bed. My book is a new one on the Compline, the night prayers of the Church. It's beautifully written.
Saturday
W wakes early but I sleep until after 8. Daily, 3 meals are left outside the door on a chair; we're not allowed to order food in. I write a thank you note and pop it into the little bag from the cutlery, fastening it with the lid covering the ruins of each meal. The note is harder than it sounds - the first one is on a teabag; I have brought no paper. When I find a pad of paper beside the phone and use Google Translate, it gets easier.

I immediately stub my toe on the 2" marble lip at the bathroom door. Ah, welcome to Indonesia, where it's a wet-bath (drain in the floor, easy to spray and clean). I'm reminded that you have to watch your feet. My toe starts out light blue and intensifies the first two days. I limp around until the bruise fades again.
Our view is over the diverse capital city of Indonesia. Neighborhoods with their own loudspeaker towers and mosques are tucked between hotels and high-rises. It rains most of the day but we don't care, dry and up high behind our windows.
I watch a botanical painting webinar. Such skill. I have neither paints nor paper along to participate.
The food is surprisingly good. We start with an Indonesian breakfast. Ah yes, I forgot that everything local is fried: the egg, the chicken, the nasi goreng sausis (fried rice).
Partway through the first day, they start bringing us Western food. It's enak (tasty) but not as good as the Indonesian meals.
Potatoes, chicken, vegetables. Even a salad!
Sunday
We're in the right time zone at 9am for BICOnline, after 5 weeks of joining @15 hrs different (Saturday 6pm in Seattle). Jennifer, a therapist and minister, is our morning speaker. She talks about the first family: Cain, Abel, and the challenges of sibling jealousy. She leads the Pastor Chat afterward, too. Well done and so valuable for families who are struggling with relationships in isolation.

In-between, I get to say hi to our grandkids, who attend BIC Sunday School online (though it's Saturday for them). They've recited the kidverse with our BIC kids, which is really fun to see. Makes it feel like we're not quite so far away from them.

A server rings the bell at lunch. He waits until I answer, smiles, and hands over the meal, thanking me for the notes they've been enjoying. He recommends that I try their Indonesian food instead of Western. 

"I'd love that," I assure him. "But please no fish." Ever.

After lunch, a bellboy moves us from separate to connecting rooms, just down the hall. It's a bit weird to have someone nearby, after a day of social distancing. W keeps popping around from his own desk, offering to help me with this and that. There's no fixing the furry TV picture though.

In the afternoon, I take a hot bath and dive into bed for a nap, which lasts 3 hours. Hopefully we'll get over jet lag by the time we head home.

I'm learning to juggle, persisting until I have 10 rotations (yesterday) and 15 today. Wait a minute - am I even doing things the right way? I check online. Nope - I start over with the correct throws and catches. It's harder the "right" way. There are a lot of 'plop's as balls hit the floor. Focus, Rosemee.
W orders chips and snacks and more water. The snacks are confiscated in the lobby for pickup when we leave. There's no outside food allowed, though they do let the water through: I consume 2-3 liters of tea most days and there are 6 small bottles of water in the room. W's also ordered paper - foolscap, 10 lined sheets @40c. Great! I've missed writing.

He calls down to the front desk at 6:30pm. Will we have the first covid tests today? (Apparently that was overlooked yesterday.) And is there supper? 2 Western suppers come up - we put them into the rooms and follow a staffer down to the testing area.

We get two swabs, one in the mouth and one in the nose. I hear W flinching as the swab goes up his nose, but stop him as he's ready to describe what happened. I don't want to know. Thankfully, mine doesn't hurt at all. The gals are friendly - they ask if we can take a picture together. Sure! We're back in the land of photos.
While we're being tested, someone leaves a delicious chicken saté with peanut sauce on our hall chair. That deserves an effusive thank-you note, for sure. I put the extra Western meal in the little fridge, in case they serve fish another time.
The days are flying by. I thought this was supposed to be boring and the days endless. Without the ability to go anywhere, I'm learning a lot: watching the local news and looking up Indonesian words, reading, juggling (well, tossing balls around the room and trying to catch them), and writing. The clock spins quickly. A long nap helps pass the hours! I stifle a yawn and consider going to sleep. It's after 10pm.

Read more:
*The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. Psalm 111:10

*They made their offering to the Lord with a whole heart. 1 Chronicles 29:9 NASB

*God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7

Moravian Prayer; Dearly Beloved, we ask that you bless the gifts that we give to you this day, for when we give to you, we are honoring the many gifts you give to us. Our hearts are full and grateful. Amen.

Wednesday, January 27, 2021

Connections make the heart sing

Monday, January 25, 2021

Oh grandkids are FUN. We spend time at the park, where a few run and play.

WONDER

One examines the park with my phone camera. I am delighted with his pictures.
A little hobbit cave at the bottom of a tall maple tree.
The entire landscape of the mountains, in miniature at the base of another tree.
There are feathers and moss.
Even a few wild animals found under the playground slide.
The alligator chomps down a mossy feast. It truly is fun to see what captures the eye of a child.

FAMILY

We have sleepovers and share feasts (cooked by Melissa).

We have family visits and go to the Sunday service online together. The old Coach display table is the perfect stage for recitations of scripture, modeling clothing, playing games, and watching the monitor.

I talk to Mom nearly every day as she adjusts to her new reality. She is indescribably dear.
We call our other kids around the States, but it's not the same as being together in person, in this strange C-19 era. 

We'll miss our grandkids so much when we go home. They model their Indonesian hats for us and give us lots of hugs.

BEAUTY
On my walks around the neighborhood, I am constantly surprised by beauty. The stems of this bush vary from brown to gold to tips of red. There are tiny little white florets here and there. No pic does it justice but it reminds me of the startling diversity at the side of the street.

The streets are empty of people. Most days, I see 4 or 5 people and perhaps as many cars on a one-hour, 3-4 mile walk.

One average-looking house boasts a flag, a big boat parked in the front yard, and another boat parked on the street. 
Occasionally the sun comes out - and I can see the empty streets around me. It's so QUIET compared to our city in Indonesia!


At night we light the candles and relax. I've written about 120 thank you notes this week. Turning off the lights and putting away paper and pen, is a pleasure.
I need nature around me. My walks provide an endless source of fresh mosses, which I keep heaping on the center tray.

The bouquet at the kitchen door is easily refreshed with 3 stems of hydrangeas, midweek.  This is such a short visit that I don't buy any pots of greens, but I do enjoy the flowers.


WORSHIP
We drive a few hours to attend our first in-person church service since March. Most people stay home and participate online.
The trees, devoid of leaves, are grey sculptures against the sky.

One of the loveliest treats is stopping by the house of friends in Puyallup on the way home. Harry and TJ keep the garage door open for our visit. It's a compromise: no hugs allowed this close to our travel time. But there's great warmth and joy at seeing each others' faces again and praying for each other.



Read more:
*I love you, Lord, my strength. The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. I called to the Lord, who is worthy of praise, and I have been saved from my enemies. Psalm 18:1-3   NIV
*Thus says the Lord, “I will rejoice in doing good to them.” Jeremiah 32:41

*The Son of Man came to seek out and to save the lost. Luke 19:10

Moravian Prayer: What a wonder that you, Oh God, should so love and care for the world that a Son is sent down among us, flesh and blood, to guide and save us. Jesus, we are amazed by you. Thank you for being our shepherd. Amen.

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

(Better late than never) Happy New Year 2021 - lovely memories in the making

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

The calendar page has flipped and we're still here. How did you start your New Year?

Not much seems to have changed from 2020. We're all still in "careful due to C-19" mode. The past month, Americans have been eyeing their presidential inauguration on Jan 20 with mixed emotions. Some are happy. Others consider it apocalyptic. (Reminds us of fears during the potential digital crash of 2000. That never happened; do you remember the food hoarding and conspiracy theories back then?)

We spend the first week of the year in Canada with my mom. We commemorated Dad's passing with services in person and online just before Christmas. W visits his mom nearby almost daily once he's out of quarantine. We have a delicious meal courtesy of his sister and get to see their cute grandkids.

*****During three weeks together, Mom and I find treasures and make discoveries around the house. A hand-colored wedding photo of Mom and Dad turns up under a stack of 1980s women's magazines. 

Isn't this cool? Mom and Dad were married for 67 years! Their love has been the bedrock of our family.

Fun memories are attached to kitchen and household items, too. I remember this salt and pepper set from when I was young. Mom always made nutritious meals from scratch. Family dinner was the anchor point where our parents transferred stories and spiritual values.

In one book Dad had earmarked, we find his own grandpa and uncles listed among ministers in Russia and Poland.

******On a lunch visit with W's auntie, we eat a yummy meal together. It's great to see his cousins there, too. Then AuntieM brings out her most-requested dessert, a home-baked Black Forest cake. It's so good that I have to ask for the recipe.

She smiles, "It's easy!" Auntie M tells us to stir together a cake mix, 4 eggs, and a can of cherry pie filling - and then bake it. (I'm going to try baking @375o for 45 min. We'll experiment from there.)

Oh my,  it tastes better than any expensive bakery treat.
*****Most days Mom and I enjoy a few long walks along the slough, A letter of permission is tucked into my pocket, allowing me to join her outside during the initial 14-Day Canadian quarantine.
She lives in a beautiful area.
I snap pictures on our walks.

This is the view I enjoyed every day as I walked down our street toward the high school. Mount Cheam is the same after all these years.
Her friends and neighbors meet for their daily walk along the river. It's fun to see the ladies again, even when accompanied by the misery of a cold rain.

*****One afternoon, Mom and I drive up Little Mountain to visit Dad's grave. Brrrr, it's cold up there, but beautiful. At least there's no snow, like on the day of the funeral.
We also find the tombstones of my grandparents and other elderly acquaintances. My dad's mom has the first plot by the upper entry. Oooh, she would not like that: she was quite shy and retiring, never wanting to be up front. Makes me chuckle.

*****During our three weeks in Canada, we keep working remotely. But I love the mealtime hangouts with Mom, and frequent calls with my brothers and our kids. That's where we exchange great memories and old photos. Here, Dad was playing violin with one of our sons. He sure loved music and encouraged each of us to play an instrument or two.

January 8
We say goodbye to Mom and Norm's family to fly out of Vancouver. The trip to the airport is courtesy of Norm's driving. It's been wonderful to spend time with family. Mom's getting tinier by the year. She's doing pretty well for 85 though!
When we get to Seattle, the kids greet us. Waaaaa, how GOOOOOD to see them!

*****This week, Makenna has her 3rd birthday. The kids have decorated the room in pink for her Pink Birthday them. She's wearing a pink crown. YAY, it's the first time we get to celebrate with her in person. (Among the unearthed mementos at Mom's house, my own 3rd bday card. below.)

******On Saturday evenings, (= Sundays Indonesian time), we watch the BICOnline gathering together. It's really fun to have the kids with us.
We join their own service on Sunday. The grandkids set up a mike and their instruments. They worship, read the scriptures, and allow time for discussion. Kinsey's in charge, including the setup and teardown.
When they come downstairs, the children know where their toys are. They play hide and seek in our flat. They are creative in where to hide. It's fun to watch them.
When they leave, Oma and Opa clean up, with big smiles on our faces. Each kiddo can be described as,
Oh how peaceful it is when they go back upstairs. Haha (Every grandparent knows this feeling, right?)

*****I'm ready to quilt a top and backing cotton brought along to give a friend. I take out a piece of batting that Mom sent along, found in Dad's workshop. 

What is that? Right in the middle is a hole. Well, it's true that Dad passed along his love of a quick fix to me. This must have been one of his practical solutions for working in his cold basement: the batting has a jagged neckline cut into the center, making each side 4" too short for me to use it for quilting. 

It's perfect for working in my own chilly office. Thanks, Pop! I order the quilt batting from a shop instead.

*****Sidewalks around our Seattle neighborhood are scattered with storm-blown leaves, mosses, and little pine branches. The streets are so empty! We may see 4 or 5 people outside and the same number of cars on our 3-mile trek up one street of house and down the next.
One day, I pick up a cotoneaster branch for my desk. The pop of color energizes me.
Another day, I pick up odds and ends and put them on a 24" tray. The aluminum tray was made by a company with my family name of Daher. Every time I pull it out, I remember the Ebay purchase while we lived in the UK (for W's doctorate).

*****Most mornings, I make a traditional breakfast. We add a scoop of Hungarian paprika to jazz up the taste one day. The oranges disappear one by one. Yum.

*****One day, the kids come down for tea. From my teapot, I fill their animal "teapots" with tea. (Each chooses an animal creamer - doggie, cat, cow, or chicken - and yes, the grands have distinct preferences.) They like to pour tea into their miniature teacups.
The little china cups were given over the years by my mom and my Winnipeg uncle. Everything I touch brings up old memories and creates new ones. Also, I believe china and other "good things" are meant to be used and enjoyed. So we love this traditional teatime, every time Oma is back.

The days are full and the nights short. God is good.

Read more:
*Turn my eyes away from worthless things. Psalm 119:37 NIV

*The Lord has sent me to comfort all who mourn. Isaiah 61:1,2

*Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5:4

*As you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith. Colossians 2:6-7

Moravian Prayer: Comforter, be with those who are grieving. Guide them under the fold of your wings and keep them safe from the world’s questions and judgments. Their lives and concerns matter, so we lift them up to you.

Christ Jesus, we pray that our faith stands firm like a mighty oak! May we be rooted in you. Even as the storms of life attempt to toss and shift us from our place, let us not be moved. We remain yours, Jesus. Amen.