Tuesday, February 9, 2021

Care for each other

 Same old brand-new every day.

There was a beautiful gift waiting on our step from Ruth when we got back to Bandung. That and other Christmas things get packed away until next year. Day by day it feels more like we're home again. The care and love we feel is a warm welcome.

Saturday, February 6, 2021, Sunday, Monday

Other than the cold or flu that is creeping up in my throat and ears, all is well. I'm a good "rest-er." I get up early, so I can do 5-6 hours of work before noon and slack off the rest of the day. We have the usual meetings, calls, and to-dos through Monday. After the workday, I read a few novels and work through 2 non-fiction leadership books (can only absorb 2-3 chapters at a time).

... and finish off a pretty good Korean drama that began in October. I skipped 50 episodes while we were away. I watch the last 5 as a finale.

Tuesday

The neighbors next to the office are clearing their land. All day, they build fires to burn what they clear or collect on the property. I keep the office door open but my lungs are sore at night.

The flowers in the little vase at the back of the house are lovely, staying fresh all week. The helper knows how to refresh my heart from the garden.

I boil water in the Russian samovar a few times. Oh, it's hot on 220volts! Maybe we need to plug it into the 110 circuit to simmer instead of a hard boil.
The dogs are happy that we're home and we're happy when they are groomed. They were shaggy when we got back!
Gypsy rests outside whatever room we are in: Cocoa finds her sweet spot on the porch and waits for us to come to her. Their wagging tails tell us they're glad to have us back.
The neighbor is pruning his trumpet vine. It is dripping with hundreds of bells - a stunning sight. Our yardman strips away the leaves from a long stem, chops it into 3 pieces, and stabs them into the ground.

"Won't be long and they will grow," he promises. In Seattle, a small trumpet vine used to cost $120 (from Mr. Munro's yard). Here, they need chopping back and a neighbor's pruning will grow easily.
The calendar has changed. As I look at the year before on my old calendar page, it lands on early March 2020. Who knew what was coming as I turned the page then? Within 2 weeks we would have closed down the building for BIC and we would begin meeting online only. Sometimes it's good that God doesn't tell us too much in advance.

I work 7am-2pm with a ramen break at noon, and then head home.

For supper, I combine leftovers with things that smell like they might be good together. IbuA fried papaya leaves and flowers for lunch and W and I were away. I take those bitter greens out of the fridge. I combine cooked pasta, olive oil, walnuts, and papaya. I sprinkle on Trader Joe "Everything but the Bagel" spices. 2 minutes in the microwave and it's done. And delicious.

Did you know that some papaya trees don't have fruit? Their leaves and flowers are deliciously bitter! 

Wednesday

It's our date day, after a long time since we've had breakfast out. W and I head for Nara/Pino, our favorite place. After, Dr H leads a study with her friend and me. "What is the Sabbath, our rest day?" from Mark 2:23-28.

I have lots of sewing supplies: this trip I brought spools of thread and skeins of wool that Mom was shedding. I finally put everything away this week. When I come into my home office, the supplies are calling. I think there's play-time ahead.

My friend Kim has quilted a stunning two-sided "big-stitch" blanket. She's joined 2 pieces of batik, a simple idea that looks amazing. (Click on the pictures for details.)


It rains every day. In the morning, you hear the wind kick up. That means another storm is blowing in. The world is green green green, the trees and plants grow so fast.

We have lunch with friends. They tell us that the a new gelato place is opening up today outside the entry to our neighborhood. From 4 main destination restaurants six years ago, we now have a whole assortment to choose from. Good for us, bad for weekend parking, and lot of competition for existing places. I feel an ice-cream break coming on after our team meeting ends at 5 ... 

Read more:
*O Lord, may they who love you be like the sun when it rises in its strength. Judges 5:31 NIV

*I will praise God’s word, I will praise the Lord’s word. Psalm 56:10 NKJV

*Jesus prayed, “The glory that you have given me I have given them.” John 17:22

*Guard the good treasure entrusted to you, with the help of the Holy Spirit living in us. 2 Timothy 1:14

*We know that the Son of God has come and has given us understanding so that we may know him who is true; and we are in him who is true, in his Son Jesus Christ. He is the true God and eternal life. 1 John 5:20

Moravian Prayer: Creator God, it is through you and for you that we shine the brightest. Help us to be light and warmth in the dark and cold, sharing your love and promise with those who long to hear. In your name, we pray.

Perfect God, we are assailed by competing claims and assertions of truth that leave us feeling distressed and confused. May your spirit ever renew in us the awareness that only you are perfect, true, and eternal. May we find courage and confidence to live by your will and in your truth.

Gracious Spirit, your word inspires us to live lives of love, peace, and service. Guide us as we share the good news of your glory and goodness to all around us. Amen.

Friday, February 5, 2021

Wake up, little Susie ...

Is there anything as sweet as waking in your own bed? Last night, we whipped the flat sheet off the bed - and it was as fresh as when we left in December. We're home! We're home!

Wednesday, February 3, 2021
The quarantine officer releases us in Jakarta and we drive home to Bandung with great relief. All our C-19 tests - 2 in the States, 2 in Indonesia - have been negative. I had a bout of Covid last year; W suspects he did, too. So we're hoping that's bought us some immunity. 

As I leaf back a year in my journals, I read that we had "a bad flu" starting in February. In March, W flew to the States for meetings; he was there when shutdowns began and was happy to fly home before Easter. I was really sick while he was away but had made a full recovery by early June. (Good thing I journal or I forget most of what's happened.)

The drive from Jakarta to Bandung is not as scary as usual due to lighter traffic. Our driver goes between 30 and 130 kmph (20-75 mph), depending if the road is empty or someone is doodling along in the fast lane. Heavy-laden trucks go 40kmph or slower on some parts of the freeway with hazard lights flashing - or not. Traffic somehow weaves around them.

With a sigh of happiness, we pull into the driveway after 3pm. I start unpacking as soon as we greet Melvina and walk in the door. (Melvi stayed at the house while we were gone.) We're not hungry, though Ibu Sumi has baked bread and pretzels because we ate a Big Mac at a rest stop along the freeway.

Everything is spotless - and I only yelp the first time a lizard dashes across the kitchen from under one cabinet to under the other. I don't like to share the house with wild animals. No roaches are in sight, and it looks like 10 mice were trapped while we were gone. I squish a half-dozen ants on the clean counters.

Before 6, our suitcases are empty and the spices, books, supplies, and clothing are put away. It will be nice to wake to an orderly home in the morning. I put away the clean laundry Ibu Sumi left on the sofa. By 7, we're asleep.

Thursday
We're awake at midnight, 2, and 4. I get up at 4 and sort my office, draw a long list of "must-dos" list, as well as a longer optimistic "wishful thinking" list for the weeks ahead. We eat on the porch and cut back vines that have grown too long, clip a few flowers from the garden (below), and start on the chore list.
Everything looks overgrown and healthy. The gardenia bush has 13 flowers, fragrant in the morning air. Someone has plucked 2 for a little vase on the table. They scent the house.
A little orchid is blooming on it's 2' stem, dangling from a few leaves above.
The "chandelier" bush is dripping with huge pink blooms (closeup of the 20" blooms above).
The tiny blossoms in the center of the bromeliads are stunning. And all this beauty is within touching distance of the porch.
Oh oh, the dogs are a mess and our poodle looks like a wild thing. Her groomers promise to show up on Saturday.
We make a quick trip to the grocer - local black tea is still 40c per package. Good to live in tea country, though the quality of the cheap stuff isn't great.

Friday
Up at 4 again, I'm walking the streets just after 6. The sun's up, the wind is blowing, and it's cold enough for a raincoat. I tug my arms through the straps of my computer tote for improvised backpack. My first meeting is at 7, so it's carry or skip the walk. Carry. But ugh, first I have to get past clumps of 3" snails creeping up our gate. I leave a note for someone to salt them and get rid of them.
W is not walking. His lower back is in such pain that he ends up in the emergency room, checking if he has kidney stones. No, say the docs, just a muscle spasm. I hear that the closest men get to labor pains are the pains of kidney stones.

"If men were the ones having kids," says my mom, "we would have had one child in the world. Period." Makes me laugh.

We get good news and bad news today to balance life and prayers between thanksgiving and petitions to God. Speaking of balance, see the guy in the blue shift, working on narrow planks far above the ground? He's building a roof for a new shop on the next block. Guess he's not afraid of heights - or falling.
Our assistant helps out at the office for a few hours. What a relief. She saves me hours of work by finding some files. A few edits and they should be good to go.

The office is quiet. There's one fish left after our time away but the water is getting clearer as I scoop out the algae.
Between FocusMate work hours, I make fresh cups of tea and pedal as fast as I can on the elliptical bike. The weeks away have made my 5-lb dumbbells heavier and the pedals harder to push. Luckily I gained only 2 lbs on this trip instead of the usual 5 from high-calorie American food.

DrW drops off chocolate mochi made by her niece. Ok, not going to lose any weight with those! Delicious. 

It's nice to have both helpers working together. They make a big lunch and clean upstairs thoroughly in preparation for Melvi's shift to another room next week.

I write a new devotional for a group request, schedule a few New Normal posts, and get home before the usual rainstorms around suppertime. The wind starts to kick up as I walk home.

Read more:
*Lord, you alone are my portion and my cup; you make my lot secure. The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance. I will praise the Lord, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me. I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken. Psalm 16:5-8 NIV


*The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

*For just as the sufferings of Christ are abundant for us, so also our consolation is abundant through Christ. 2 Corinthians 1:5

Moravian Prayer: Loving Lord, we look to you with thanksgiving as we rejoice in the knowledge that you are there to heal us in our wounded and broken ways. Lord, may we take comfort in knowing that you are our salvation, saved by your grace. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.


Tuesday, February 2, 2021

Two tests and the journey's end

Monday, January 31, 2020
The night is short: 10-4, but hopefully the early awakening means we're acclimating to SE Asia time after being on the west coast of N America. We usually get up between 4 and 5am anyway.

We had the first swab/saliva covid test Sunday evening. This morning we are summoned for a second one. I wonder if that means we can go home earlier than Wednesday. We'll see. (Nope.) Near the elevator is a beautiful 4' ceramic vase wrapped in rattan. I snap a picture: a little beauty goes a long way in confinement.
It rains off and on most days. I wonder about all the people living under the clouds. The big picture window helps expand the hotel room. I watch the skies change as motorcycles, buses, and cars zoom by below.
The morning zips by between the covid test, a 2-hr visit with a friend (Zoom), recording my usual 5-minute Monday talk (FB), and the morning study of the gospel of John (Zoom).

The hotel meals have been pretty good. If they're Indonesian, there seems no difference between breakfast and the rest of the menu.
If it's Western, lunch and supper are interchangeable, but breakfast is continental (sausage, beans, pastry, eggs.) I hand my tater tots to W, who likes them. I don't. The food tastes are not as good as it was on the weekend, I admit. Must be a different chef using similar recipes.
In the early afternoon, I'm ready for some writing, maybe some reading, and a quick nap. Instead, we rewrite the talk for Sunday about Noah. What an interesting man. Then we record, setting up our own backdrop. We trap printed fabric under the picture frame but it slides down around our shoulders. W has to keep taping it up.

The raindrops on the window sparkle like the crystal I found tucked into tree branches along the sidewalk in Seattle. Soon we'll be walking outside again. This time it will be warmer than Seattle.
When we're done with work, I read. And read some more, before supper and in the hot bath. Phew, the smell is awful. The bathroom drains are leaking sewage fumes so I cut my relaxation short. I'm asleep before 10.

Tuesday
Both of us wake before 4am. I listen again through much the first book of the Bible (Genesis). I've heard it four or five times this week, and what a saga it is: betrayal, love, jealousy, murder, promises, and faith! God stays the same. And humanity pretty much is carrying on the way our ancestors did.

Outside my window, ropes and wires dangle from the rooftop and sway in the wind. Will window-washers come around? Does something need hauling up? I don't know. The wires and ropes drift back and forth. Industrial textures are among my favorite things, like the girder of a bridge that I snapped last week.
Breakfast includes a black strand that looks like a 3" dog hair attached to a pastry. I lose my appetite.
But lunch is very tasty: I think the regular chef is back. There's goulash, mashed potatoes, and some vegetables. I've had some chocolate almonds (Trader Joes) since breakfast was small; that means I'm not hungry and can share the abundance, including the gravy, with W, whose lunch is rice, fish, and a drier version of beef (equally delicious). We finish with a dessert of sweet papaya cubes.

The front desk sends extra teabags and a promise that we'll have our covid test results today. Any time we use the elevator (so far only upon arrival or for the tests), we have to stand on a spot and be escorted by someone. They hustle us into the box the minute the doors open - with minimal time for air exchange from exiting passengers. Oh well. God help us all.
I wonder how many roaches will be lying dead on their backs in our bedroom and bathroom at home. Usually 3-5 cockroaches and innumerable ants eating them await, out of reach of the helper's broom.

Last week, the ladies snapped a picture of themselves at work, scrubbing down the kitchen for our arrival. You don't leave a place in the tropics for a month without it getting full of dust, dirt, and bugs.
I have a final bath - the sewer smell was an aberration: today is just fine. The water is hot. My book is interesting. The shampoo makes good bubbles. What's not to love?

Wednesday
Yup, up at 4 again. Guess that's the new routine. Breakfast is hot and delicious: tender scrambled eggs, twice-fried potatoes, flaky croissants, warm sausages, and guava juice. I'd come here on a regular day if it was closer. For anyone who has time in Jakarta, consider the #MillenniumHotel near city center. The staff was kind and responsive, the food excellent (90% of the time), and the room clean and welcoming.

Will we be released today? W calls the front desk in the morning, but the quarantine officer hasn't come by the lobby yet. What do you think? Will we go home today? [For me the hardest thing is saying yes - or getting into motion - and then having to wait. How about you?]

Read more:
*Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. 

These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:4-9


*My word shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and succeed in the thing for which I sent it. Isaiah 55:11


*Enable your servants to speak your word with great boldness. Stretch out your hand to heal and perform signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant Jesus. Acts 4:29-30 

*We do, however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing. No, we declare God’s wisdom, a mystery that has been hidden and that God destined for our glory before time began. 

None of the rulers of this age understood it, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. However, as it is written: “What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived”—the things God has prepared for those who love him—these are the things God has revealed to us by his Spirit. The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. 1 Corinthians 2: 6-10

Moravian Prayer: Great God, accomplish your purpose in us. Strengthen the prophetic voice in each of us, that we may speak boldly for you. Make us proclaimers of your name and workers of your will. Amen.

Sunday, January 31, 2021

Pack up for quarantine!

 And so it goes. Before we know it, our visits end. We're on the move back to Indonesia before we know it.

Monday, January 25, 2021

It's goodbye week. We go from meeting to meeting today - we start with a covid saliva test (the results come back too soon so we'll have to redo it). We meet college friends for lunch.

We drive an hour north for a walk along the river with dear Jessa and Lucian.
Friends Terry and Debbie come over for supper. Melissa cooks our traditional family feast - spätzle and chicken cutlets or schnitzel. Oh, she's amazing. (If your daughter-in-law is less wonderful, our condolences. We're so blessed by her!)

Tuesday

We have a second covid test, more meetings, and almost finish packing. We've been tossing things into suitcases for the past week. We weigh, redistribute, and reweigh, more than once.

I'm bringing back art and craft supplies besides teaching materials and personal items. There are heavy things like books, markers, fabric, and new shoes for walking. Why shoes? I've walked the soles off many pairs of shoes in the last 6 years; Indonesian roads are rough and the quality we can get here doesn't hold up to the miles we put on our shoes. 

There are light things like skeins of wool, pens, and Trader Joes popcorn. Yes, I brought a bag of sweet and salty popcorn for the day when I miss Seattle.

This past week, Melissa has cooked up a perfect storm of steak, German food, and other family specialties . We've probably gained weight, even with daily walks. I've tried for 3 miles a day because we're going into a C-19 quarantine - lockdown in a hotel room - for 5 days after we arrive in Jakarta.

Our son Jonathan drops by in the evening. It's SO good to see him. We've enjoyed time with Timo, Melissa, and the grandchildren. We call the others - Kirsten, Jeremy and Rebekah. Distancing and stay-in-place is hard on connections! We miss the hugs.

Wednesday

We wrap up our time in Seattle by repacking once or five times more! It's a day with family, including a morning tea party. We give the  kids a few more gifts. One is a wooden balancing puzzle. Le is the star - he has creative ways to keep his pieces on top of each other.

The kids work hard to try not to topple their stacks. Isa is focused.
Miss K stacks hers easily and poses in her Indonesian batik wrap-skirt.
On our final walk, I peek into the local Little Free Library and pick up a stack of board books for little Mac to read. They can return them when she's done.

And of course there's laundry to do. After the bedding is washed and dried, it's tucked back under the sofa bed until our next visit.

Timo drops us to an airport hotel in late afternoon; snow was predicted and our flight is early - no sense in taking chances. We wave goodbye to the family from their porch - and we're on our way home. We call our other children to say goodbye.

Thursday 
We get to the airport early with a 5am shuttle from the hotel. It takes a half-hour to check our paperwork at the counter. Indonesia is being very strict on documentation for covid testing and visas. Air Canada staff is polite and helpful.
We leave Seattle about 9am, landing for an hour or two in Vancouver before flying along the mountains of the eastern Pacific coastline. The flight map is so interesting - we hug the coast of Alaska, cross over Tokyo and near Taiwan, and land in Hong Kong. On a flat-earth map, we're going the long way but in real geography, it's a straight line over the top of the sphere.
The long flight - almost 15 hours - has 30 passengers. We each take a row of 3 seats and stretch out. I sleep 4 or 5 hours! (That's a wonder, prob because people are praying for us.) Between naps, I read and watch the Mr Rogers movie, Beautiful Neighborhood. It touches me and elicits heartfelt thanksgiving for my wonderful father, who loved and affirmed us. I feel so privileged as his daughter. I lay across the seats, my mask hiding the tears streaming down my cheeks as I thank God for godly, loving parents.

In Hong Kong, two Chinese officials meet us at the gate with a sign: To Jakarta. That would be us ... and 3 more disembarking passengers. They take us on a rapid walk through hallways, one stop by train, and then send us through immigration and security. We make it to the new gate for a final check of documents and boarding. Whew - we would never have found our way alone in the short layover!

We're only about 80 people on the flight to Jakarta, meaning we get another row to ourselves. Hurrah - good for passengers, awful for airlines. This is unsustainable, but not having air travel seems unthinkable. We arrive in Indonesia before midnight (9am Pacific - have been underway about 24 hours from the first flight).

We sit in long rows for 45 minutes after filling out our health report. Chairs are a meter apart, one behind the other. Hmmm. Officials take us to the immigration line, where we're met by a helper who assists us through immigration and customs.
A taxi whisks us to the Millennium hotel to begin 5 days of quarantine. The hotel doesn't have adjoining rooms available, but we've told them we each need a desk. (It won't hurt to have our own bathrooms either.)
I take pictures in the foyer, since we can't see this until next week. The wood carvings are spectacular.
The hotel puts us in neighboring rooms. They promise to arrange rooms with a connecting door tomorrow. I read until 2am and fall fast asleep in the clean comfy bed. My book is a new one on the Compline, the night prayers of the Church. It's beautifully written.
Saturday
W wakes early but I sleep until after 8. Daily, 3 meals are left outside the door on a chair; we're not allowed to order food in. I write a thank you note and pop it into the little bag from the cutlery, fastening it with the lid covering the ruins of each meal. The note is harder than it sounds - the first one is on a teabag; I have brought no paper. When I find a pad of paper beside the phone and use Google Translate, it gets easier.

I immediately stub my toe on the 2" marble lip at the bathroom door. Ah, welcome to Indonesia, where it's a wet-bath (drain in the floor, easy to spray and clean). I'm reminded that you have to watch your feet. My toe starts out light blue and intensifies the first two days. I limp around until the bruise fades again.
Our view is over the diverse capital city of Indonesia. Neighborhoods with their own loudspeaker towers and mosques are tucked between hotels and high-rises. It rains most of the day but we don't care, dry and up high behind our windows.
I watch a botanical painting webinar. Such skill. I have neither paints nor paper along to participate.
The food is surprisingly good. We start with an Indonesian breakfast. Ah yes, I forgot that everything local is fried: the egg, the chicken, the nasi goreng sausis (fried rice).
Partway through the first day, they start bringing us Western food. It's enak (tasty) but not as good as the Indonesian meals.
Potatoes, chicken, vegetables. Even a salad!
Sunday
We're in the right time zone at 9am for BICOnline, after 5 weeks of joining @15 hrs different (Saturday 6pm in Seattle). Jennifer, a therapist and minister, is our morning speaker. She talks about the first family: Cain, Abel, and the challenges of sibling jealousy. She leads the Pastor Chat afterward, too. Well done and so valuable for families who are struggling with relationships in isolation.

In-between, I get to say hi to our grandkids, who attend BIC Sunday School online (though it's Saturday for them). They've recited the kidverse with our BIC kids, which is really fun to see. Makes it feel like we're not quite so far away from them.

A server rings the bell at lunch. He waits until I answer, smiles, and hands over the meal, thanking me for the notes they've been enjoying. He recommends that I try their Indonesian food instead of Western. 

"I'd love that," I assure him. "But please no fish." Ever.

After lunch, a bellboy moves us from separate to connecting rooms, just down the hall. It's a bit weird to have someone nearby, after a day of social distancing. W keeps popping around from his own desk, offering to help me with this and that. There's no fixing the furry TV picture though.

In the afternoon, I take a hot bath and dive into bed for a nap, which lasts 3 hours. Hopefully we'll get over jet lag by the time we head home.

I'm learning to juggle, persisting until I have 10 rotations (yesterday) and 15 today. Wait a minute - am I even doing things the right way? I check online. Nope - I start over with the correct throws and catches. It's harder the "right" way. There are a lot of 'plop's as balls hit the floor. Focus, Rosemee.
W orders chips and snacks and more water. The snacks are confiscated in the lobby for pickup when we leave. There's no outside food allowed, though they do let the water through: I consume 2-3 liters of tea most days and there are 6 small bottles of water in the room. W's also ordered paper - foolscap, 10 lined sheets @40c. Great! I've missed writing.

He calls down to the front desk at 6:30pm. Will we have the first covid tests today? (Apparently that was overlooked yesterday.) And is there supper? 2 Western suppers come up - we put them into the rooms and follow a staffer down to the testing area.

We get two swabs, one in the mouth and one in the nose. I hear W flinching as the swab goes up his nose, but stop him as he's ready to describe what happened. I don't want to know. Thankfully, mine doesn't hurt at all. The gals are friendly - they ask if we can take a picture together. Sure! We're back in the land of photos.
While we're being tested, someone leaves a delicious chicken saté with peanut sauce on our hall chair. That deserves an effusive thank-you note, for sure. I put the extra Western meal in the little fridge, in case they serve fish another time.
The days are flying by. I thought this was supposed to be boring and the days endless. Without the ability to go anywhere, I'm learning a lot: watching the local news and looking up Indonesian words, reading, juggling (well, tossing balls around the room and trying to catch them), and writing. The clock spins quickly. A long nap helps pass the hours! I stifle a yawn and consider going to sleep. It's after 10pm.

Read more:
*The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. Psalm 111:10

*They made their offering to the Lord with a whole heart. 1 Chronicles 29:9 NASB

*God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7

Moravian Prayer; Dearly Beloved, we ask that you bless the gifts that we give to you this day, for when we give to you, we are honoring the many gifts you give to us. Our hearts are full and grateful. Amen.