Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Christmas Week begins

Sunday, December  20, 2015
We start the morning at a wedding. Shera is a friend from movie night. We're happy to cheer her on at the celebration of marriage to her friend Dani.
A young wedding guest
 The bride is stunningly beautiful. The groom is nervous and handsome - our wish is that they love and care for each other all their lives. It's the beginning of a new season for both. We pray God's favor and blessings on them.
Dani and Shera
We stay for an hour but have the honor of attending a second event. We wave goodbye to the bride and groom from the doorway and hop in the car. K is under the weather so she stays with the driver while W and I go into St. Paul's.

We prayed for a couple last year who hadn't been able to have kids. This year, Desmond is thriving under the loving care of his mom, dad, and extended family. Thanks be to God for this miracle boy.

He's being baptized. W and I pray over him along with our other grandkids.
Desmond's baptism
The light of Christ at Christmas
Pascall and Yunni invite us to lunch with their family. What a privilege for us!
Oma K and Desmond
Love this family!
The setting is stunning. Here's the view from our table.

Two loving grandmas and an Oma
We need groceries and a baking supplies for the upcoming week, so we stop at a mall. It's late afternoon when we pull into the driveway. W and I write thank-yous to supporters and partners.

Monday
It's so strange to be far from home at Christmas. Some of the routines of the season have followed us.

Today is baking day. Our daughter K's helps. W runs to the store for more eggs and butter. We use up bags of flour (they come in half-kilo size), sugar, and other goodies. By party-time Tuesday, we've made Nanaimo bars, peanut-choco cookies, thumbprint cookies, cream-cheese-frosted brownies, and puff-pastries.

I'm always grateful for experience in baking and cooking at full speed. While our kids grew up at home, I taught piano in the afternoons . I learned to put together meals quickly. That comes in handy here when we have friends over.
Our friend Pauline admires desserts. She made the
gingerbread house; someone else brought the middle cakes
We pause the baking to head out for lunch with K's friend. Beth is a doctor, learning Indonesian in Bandung.
Tip-toe: K towers over many locals 

Then it's back to work. I take a mini-art break: it's our tradition to share an ornament each year. Out come the Sharpees and they're done in 15 minutes. Back to the kitchen!
Star ornaments for 2015
Meanwhile, W takes Gypsy to the local hash run. The rain's held off so it's slippery but not treacherous.
Gypsy loves the trails!
Read more:
*If you offer your food to the hungry and satisfy the needs of the afflicted, then your light shall rise in the darkness. Isaiah 58:10 ESV

*Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. And behold, an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid.

Then the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:8-11 NKJV

*Let your gentleness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. Philippians 4:5 ESV

Moravian Prayer: Jesus, grant us the gentle strength we need to be steadfast in our compassionate conduct toward the suffering people of this world. May our persistent actions shed light on the plight of the hungry and thirsty, so others may see and act on their behalf. Amen.

C.S. Lewis The Problem of Pain: The golden apple of selfhood, thrown among the false gods, became an apple of discord because they scrambled for it. They did not know the first rule of the holy game, which is that every player must by all means touch the ball and then immediately pass it on. To be found with it in your hands is a fault: to cling to it, death. 

But when it flies to and fro among the players too swift for eye to follow, and the great master Himself leads the revelry, giving Himself eternally to His creatures in the generation, and back to Himself in the sacrifice, of the Word, then indeed the eternal dance ‘makes heaven drowsy with the harmony’. All pains and pleasures we have known on earth are early initiations in the movements of that dance: but the dance itself is strictly incomparable with the sufferings of this present time. As we draw nearer to its uncreated rhythm, pain and pleasure sink almost out of sight. 

There is joy in the dance, but it does not exist for the sake of joy. It does not even exist for the sake of good, or of love. It is Love Himself, and Good Himself, and therefore happy. It does not exist for us, but we for it.

Saturday, December 19, 2015

Ladies who lunch

I love my neighbor ladies. Some have known each other for 40+ years, working together in the national scientific research facility. Most retired a few years ago.


They meet every two months for lunch. When they were younger, the women supported charities and were active in the community.

Today, over 20 women eat at Dapur Gaul, a local restaurant. The faces are becoming familiar.


At the annual election, we vote in a chairperson to plan the gatherings in 2016. She wasn't there. Will she embrace her duties? We are hopeful.


The food is good: the nasi goreng kambing (fried rice and mutton) on my plate is great. I like to try new things, too: my green mango and basil seed drink is a hit.



Thanks be to God for good neighbors! who have been so kind to welcome Waldemar and me.

Oh, and I am given an envelope: I've won the arisan door prize of about $125. I can't get too excited: due to travels, I've missed my dues since summer. The amount is deducted from my envelope. (They tell me I am lucky: I got a door prize for the whole hill last year = the first time I attended that arisan. This time, it's my immediate neighbors - about 50 houses worth.) The money is used for charity or to host friends.


I feel blessed indeed.

Read more:
*If you will only obey the Lord your God: blessed shall you be when you come in, and blessed shall you be when you go out. Deuteronomy 28:1,6 NEV

*The revelation awaits an appointed time; though it lingers, wait for it. Habakkuk 2:3 NIV

*Praise be to the Lord, the God of Israel, because he has come to his people and redeemed them. He has raised up a horn of salvation for us in the house of his servant David (as he said through his holy prophets of long ago).Luke 1:68-70 NIV

*Abraham was fully convinced that God was able to do what he had promised. Romans 4:21 ESV

*You also must be patient. Strengthen your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is near. James 5:8 NEV

Moravian Prayer: Our right relationship with you, O Promise Keeper, is the foundation of our faith and the incentive for our trusting obedience. We give our utmost thanks for your Son whose coming to earth convinces us of your eternal love and grace. 

Patience is not our strong suit, O Lord. We want instant gratification and easy answers. May these weeks of Advent waiting teach us once again to have patient trust in the perfect timing of your plans for us. Amen.

A visa run to Malaysia


KL - beautiful architecture 
We take a break from our routines to fly to Kuala Lumpur, the capital of Malaysia. We have to leave Indonesia every month or two while our visas are in process. We try to schedule our trip for a teaching break but during this season we just have to leave for a while.

KL has a lot of people
And modern infrastructure
But first we walk across the taxiway to the plane in Bandung for the the two-hour flight.

Dad and daughter on the plane


When we get to the KL airport, we're in a modern mall.

Forget Santa's lap.
We've got Snoopy (airport)
Tabitha, youth pastor for a big congregation, picks us up and takes us to see a dream realized since we we last taught here.

Calvary Convention Center: a big dream built in real life

Prayer rooms in the Prayer Tower
Our hotel is in the center of Chinatown, small, clean, and cheap.

Rain Forest hotel in Chinatown

Chestnuts and hot gravel stirred
over an open fire in a barrel.
We go to a mall together: there's a Chinese food court with amazing food in the basement.

Now that's a mall's center court!
Time for a rest at the mango juice stop 
Tabitha and Kirsten enjoying Thai food

We loved the shaved ice and other food


Friday we're on our own. I have work to do in the morning (seasonal invitations) but then we walk around Chinatown's wholesale streets and eat more good food.

By evening we have some gifts purchased and we're ready for the flight home. It's uneventful, thankfully.

Goodbye to a rabbit at the airport
We're back at our place by midnight. It's always nice to sleep at home.

Christmas movie night 2015

Wednesday, December 16
Fun with friends. A feast. A Christmas reading. And "Elf." What a fun evening all around.

walking buddies

friends
around the table

plenty of food

Kirsten and friends around the tree
movie night

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Summer in December


Monday, December 7
We're having a hard time believing it's December. It's still summer here. Love it love it love it.
Traffic alternatives in Jakarta
After the morning study, we're off to Jakarta. We miss a baby shower and have to give the gift the next day.

Tuesday
We leave at 9 to get to the IES staff meeting. Once again, the liturgy read around the table refreshes our souls.

IES staff meeting


Lunch with staff and then it's off to dessert with friends from NU in Seattle. We're talking about internships, courses abroad, and other educational / community development matters.




For supper we stop by a goat saté restaurant. The staff fans the coals on a small burner outside. Then the food comes to us. Oh yum.


Goat sate

Wednesday
We head downtown to meet friends and shop for 2 hours at the local wholesale market. Time flies by with Kristi - who is our Indonesian negotiator. Thanks! for the time, though she is pregnant and feels tired and under the weather.

We have a late lunch with her parents and a few others.



Grandpa duty - fanning the sleeping child
Supper is with credential holders of a local organization. All 4-500 of us. We meet new friends and get reacquainted with old ones.


At 9:30pm we're on the road to home. It's a blazingly fast trip: we are home before midnight. I unpack and crawl into bed with a grateful heart.

Thursday
Our helper is distressed by family matters. We pray together before I leave at 8:30am.

I walk just about 4 miles all around the hills of our neighborhood. Angela knows trails I've never encountered. Fascinating, good exercise, and good conversation. We can't believe how good Gypsy is: where's the wild thing he used to be? (thankfully MIA today)
Good boy, Gypsy

House upon house in the valley across from us

Good friends and walkers
I make a few phone calls but find myself drifting into sleep. When I put the phone down, I doze off immediately and sleep for a half hour.

We're off to the study at Bamboo Shack - what a precious time together. W joins his hash friends for supper and evening, while K and I head home.

Read more:
*Long ago you laid the foundation of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands. Psalm 102:25 ESV

*The lot is cast into the lap, but the decision is the Lord’s alone. Proverbs 16:33 ESV

*Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground unperceived by your Father. Matthew 10:29 ESV

*Worship him who made heaven and earth, the sea and the springs of water. Revelation 14:7 ESV

Moravian Prayer: From microorganisms to the majestic mountains, from molten minerals to frozen tundra, nothing exists except by your will, O Creator God. We worship you with humble awe and with thanksgiving for all that you provide today and always.

Nothing we decide to say or do escapes you, ever-vigilant Spirit. All our choices are detected as you move among us, seeking to guide us from self-indulgence and self-centeredness toward sacrificial love. We welcome your presence as we prepare our hearts for the coming Christ. Amen.

Saturday, December 5, 2015

One by one: fishes, dim sum, study, teaching ... and more

School lunch: spicy fish and white rice. Yum.
There's a 15" snake under the exercise ball. Dead, luckily. When I move the ball, it lies there. W sweeps it out the door. I don't take a picture.

There are openings around every window and door. The air blows through. The ants march in and out. Mice squeeze through. And the dust and dirt comes inside. There is nothing air-tight here (except maybe a Tupperware container).

I pull out the white enamel drip tray from the bottom of the old oven and find burned-on grime and mouse poop. Ugh. After Ibu A shakes off the droppings over the garden, we try soda and vinegar / soda and boiling water / and finally, a precious SOS scrub pad from a little box mailed to us last year by a supporting organization. SOS does the trick. The others are fails.

Sunday lunch
It's all in a week's adventure. This week we start with church, lunch, and an afternoon visit with the Polish consul and a neighbor. I'm in a baking mood so try out three new kinds of cookies on them. All are affirmed as "do it again!" We send goodie bags home.

The week includes 35 hours of teaching and about the same number of hours for class revisions. It's a new course for me. W is teaching something he's taught often. He's energized by the classroom and transfer of information - extrovert. I'm encouraged by the student interest and energized by resting - introvert.

We eat lunch most days with students in the cafeteria. The food is excellent. (Above, fish)

A week or two before my class starts, I am notified that it will be translated into Indonesian. (W's is in English.) That means my class cannot go into great depth due to language restrictions - and they can't read English so they can't do the assignments as planned. So I have to have a LOT more material available and other assignments to develop. And they read condensed versions of the text that someone translates. We lose self-assessments at the ends of chapters (on their temperament, personality, and leadership styles). The translator tells them - line by line - the approximate meanings of a general assessment test and that will have to do.

In the first session, I ask if the translator can simul-speak: if I speak slowly, can he constantly turn over the ideas into Indonesian? (I'd happily block his Indonesian with my English. Every mom of 4 kids, like me, learns to filter all kinds of simultaneous info!)

The translator says he has a preferred method: "You speak quicker and say what you want to say. Afterwards I will summarize the whole idea."

Sometimes his explanations are a sentence to a paragraph I say. Sometimes, if I pause, he waves to keep going so the contrast of ideas is lost. Occasionally I give a short general idea and hear a long explanation: there's a lot more going on than I said (from my limited grasp of the language). I ask him about it a few times.

Students bring snacks to sample each day
By mid-week we have established a rhythm: he does whatever he can to communicate the gist of the lesson into another language and culture. The transfer is well-intentioned. He's tired at the end of the day.

So am I, but I have to evaluate the material each evening and rework the materials (or get more!) for the next day.

Wednesday
Claudia and the kids have to leave early in the morning. She makes us some goodies (cheese buns from Brazil) and shows me how to boil plantains. The kids give us big hugs and smiles.

W and I are dropped at a corner less than a mile from the seminary while the driver continues on to the airport nearby. We miss them right away - they were good guests and lovely people.

Friday
beautiful Christmas flowers: 6' tall
We meet friends for dim sum at lunch (hurrah! there is a Chinese place across the street from the seminary). We celebrating the end of the week and good classes.

This month our friend and neighbor, who orders rice for an orphanage, contacts us in time to add to her order for our own gifts. Since rice prices have risen steeply in the past year, we help a few families as well.

Saturday
K and I start the day early at brunch nearby with Jane. She's a new friend met at another event 2 weeks ago. This is a social culture - everything hinges on relationships.

When we come home, I stretch out on a sofa and fall fast asleep for 2 hours. Then it's time for lunch, work, and relaxation - a good day indeed.

From 10-12 p.m., I hop online for a conference with leaders from Seattle, California, and Texas. I'm always wide awake after such sessions, so it's past 1:30 a.m. when I finish writing. (W has a look at the blog in the morning and hits send.)

The dogs are barking outside. The neighbor's animal keeps up a racket into the early hours of the morning and other dogs join in.

Read more:
Cast your burden on the Lord, and He shall sustain you. He shall never permit the righteous to be moved. Psalm 55:22 NKJV

*I pray with all my heart; answer me, Lord! I will obey your decrees. I cry out to you; rescue me, that I may obey your laws. I rise early, before the sun is up; I cry out for help and put my hope in your words. Psalm 119:145-147 NLT

*But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. 1 Peter 2: 9-10 NIV