The Nutcracker and a feast with friends

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

JOY! It's the topic we're working on for next week's Gathering. There are moments when I laugh aloud, passing by a shelf or table. This ceramic bell brings a smile.

At sunrise, we can see the distant mountains. The night rain has cleaned the air.

We walk by the Padma Hotel with its Christmas display in the foyer.

At the beginning of the week, our entry is set in red, green and white.

Breakfast is toast and the nut butter brought from New Zealand a few months ago by my friend Lisa. I consult with a few scholars and check in with mentors before leaving the table.

We need to shop for Christmas ... and buy groceries for tomorrow's movie night. We go downtown to the wholesale specialty street. A historic building catches our eye, between concrete apartments and shops.

This little 3-wheeled pickup is loaded, waiting for the driver.

I'm happy to find the red berries I couldn't find elsewhere. I strip the long stem into 6 separate sections and weave them through the wreath on the office door.

Another wreath hangs on the kitchen door, ready to welcome tomorrow's guests.

I wrap 20 gifts for those who will forget the White Elephant gift exchange on Christmas Day. The ready-mades stack up at the back of the tree, leaving room for what others bring.

W and PakG set up the main room for movie night. We try a layout that requires less work for the guys. The furniture is left mostly intact instead of piled up in my office. IbuS rolls up the rugs; the guys bring chairs from upstairs to existing tables. Let's see if it works. We have almost 100 signed up - only 70 can come but as usual, the list sorts itself out up.

Today stays dry into the evening. Will the weather hold tomorrow? W writes the talk for Sunday and we discuss it together. We work at the quiet dining table after the helpers leave for home.

Today the women made hard-boiled eggs and baked hundreds of cookies: ginger dipped in chocolate and peanut butter. W and I replenished butter, flour, eggs, and sugar during our errands.

W orders supper: pho (soup) for me, a bun (Vietnamese sandwich) for himself. It's our comfort food on a cool dark evening.

Wednesday

At 5 AM, cooking starts, which means the food prep is done by 9. I wrap the huge pots in towels to keep them warm before setting out cutlery, trays for cookies, and tablecloths.

We pause with an early lunch at Miss Bee, which has just finished renovations. They built the first restaurant glass house in town, which has been copied many times since.

This year's color scheme is pastel.

The 5" (12cm) pods of the cocoa tree are ripening beside the staircase.

The helpers arrive at 3 PM to cut fruit and salad, cook rice, and bring supplies from storage. We start to reheat the food at 5:30. Indonesians don't care if their food is hot or lukewarm but expats do.

These two women are such a blessing. Our guests love to say hi to IbuA and Ibu S, too. By the time they go home about 10 PM, most dishes are washed and the garbage put away. They take leftovers to their families, sparing our overflowing fridge. 

Young people start arriving after 6 PM and it's a full house. Many have never seen a house decorated for Christmas or attended a Christmas party, which is fun. Various ones read a part of the Christmas story and we listen together. We pause at the middle of the film for dessert. (W nearly always finds a cliff-hanger to bring us to the break.)

Someone brings donuts, which I cut into pieces. Others bring cakes, fruit, and other treats. The rule for dessert is to limit the first round to "4 choices plus a fruit-and-yogurt," which most attendees honor. Everyone is welcome to come for seconds once the line has gone through. The sweets disappear in no time!

We combine home-baked treats with food gifts.

The Nutcracker and the Four Realms is a story of good vs evil, of doing what is right when you don't feel like it.

On the screen in the house or on the Porch, the movie is well-received. It sparks discussion about leading change from our inner transformation. The last guests leave at 11 PM so W and I tidy a bit before falling into bed at 11:30.

Thursday

We head for the mountains at 7:30 AM. Much of today's trail is overgrown. We follow the dogs who run ahead, or the path disappears from view. We watch our feet carefully to avoid snakes or big lizards. The dogs clear the path with their 4-legged romps.

Most of the hike is shaded, which keeps the heat off our heads. It's the best decompression we could  imagine.

We pause for a picture, overlooking tea fields and volcanic mountains. The rainy season brings vibrant new growth.

Even 50' (15m) palm trees put on a show, like this one whose 4' (1.3m) "flower" mop hangs from its trunk.

Greens we used to barely keep alive as houseplants flourish in the shaded forests.

We eat at a place we haven't visited for years, saying goodbye-for-now to a few who are traveling for the holidays and "see you next week" to the rest.

The house is back in place. Oh that was easier. We'll definitely minimize moving the furniture next time. This layout worked well! We learn something each time we host an event.

Friday - W's mom's birthday

We call and wish her a happy birthday. We're thankful to have our moms!

With a few more tweaks, the house is ready for the next guests. Ruth sends gifts for us to distribute to her friends. I drop them at the hall and write everyone to pick them up Sunday. This cute birdcage lights up on the entry table.

It's time to stock up again. I make a quick trip to the supermarket - well, not that quick. Halfway down the hill,  I remember, "Oh, I need money." We turn around and are soon on our way again. We need butter and eggs to make next week's cookies!

I count the cookies in the fridges. Oh goodie ... we need another 1,400 cookies. (What?!) The women have 2 or 3 baking days left. Let's see if that happens.

This cute little Wuling parks beside our car at the grocer. The Chinese electric cars are cheap and efficient, perfect for negotiating narrow city streets. We see more and more of them in town.

I call our kids to check how their Christmas season is going. Then there is a tablecloth to track down.  "I think two tablecloths were borrowed for a potluck while you were gone in October," remembers the helper "and maybe one was returned?"

We share the hospitality items used for our own events. I occasionally rethink these loans. Getting things back can be a pain and time-waster. Stuff sometimes comes back with stains. Occasionally an item is broken or damaged by use. That's to be expected but who replaces it? Sigh. Time to get everything back for inspection before our Christmas guests come over.

There are letters and calls to check off the list, updates to write, chapters to edit, and more. It's a typical day when nothing is on the calendar but a to-do list writes itself as we go along. I edit this post and think, "JOY! it's coming up this weekend." hehe

Read more:

*Love truth and peace. Zechariah 8:19

*Your sun shall no more go down or your moon withdraw itself, for the Lord will be your everlasting light. Isaiah 60:20

*And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

*For it is the God who said, “Light will shine out of darkness,” who has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. 2 Corinthians 4:6

Moravian Prayer: Light of the world, our lives are illuminated by grace. Your light goes before us, and your presence shines in all the good we do. We follow you, hoping to drive out the darkness of this earth. In your name, we pray. 

Understanding Savior, you are able to comprehend the message of our hearts, even when words fail us. We rejoice to be seen, heard, and known by you. Amen.