Showing posts with label new year. Show all posts
Showing posts with label new year. Show all posts

Thursday, January 2, 2025

Happy New Year! 2025 - meditating on "HOPE"

Monday, December 30, 2024

I'm grateful. It's been one of the most difficult years in memory. I am thankful that it's almost over. During the night, I write in my journal about things I appreciated and what I learned last year.

The yardman comes and trims the wall between us and our good neighbor. Houses are built on either side of a wall. Our vines grow up and over, which is a nuisance for the other side. Today it's clipped below the razor wire again.

I'm evaluating the year as I usually do. This time I have a black notebook for highlights on the 2024 calendar, observations, and lessons.
We drive to the IKEA sale in the next suburb. The straight street and limited traffic feel as though we've stepped into 1990s suburban life in the USA.
One of my purchases is this clay pot, which sits in a few inches of water inside a porcelain dish. It must be soaked for an hour before planting the cypress and lavender shoots.
I'm hungry for Vietnamese food. On our way home is Royal City restaurant. We walk up 3 long flights (20 steps each). It's quite full when we start with their free appetizer. We spot the elevator later.
While we wait for our order, I admire their mural.
W prefers cold noodles (bun) while I like hot soup (pho), even in this weather.
A neighbor sends me a picture of Juno outside our gate. Someone from next door has left the gate open. Luckily the dogs are old and don't run away. By the time we get home, Juno's returned to her sweet spot, a massive dog pillow that overlooks the entry.
In the afternoon, PakG brings back the tree stump from the hall's Christmas display. We rewind the hoya vine around it and replace other plants on its branches.
Too many lights! for the New Year, after all the excitement of Christmas. I strip out the shelves and lay the long string back on itself. Better. Now to find the boxes they came in.
Tuesday
Someone is burning garbage, which is common though illegal. Workers sweep debris and leaves to the sides of the roads and start fires that pollute the neighborhoods.
When I leave the hall, it has almost burned itself out without catching the big tree on fire. Amazing.
W and I stop at the hall on our walk. Daniel has taken down the decor in the hall and the bins are ready to come home.
W and I separate our items from what belongs to IES Bandung.

My breakfast is a source of wonder. Consider what you are eating today? Have you paused lately to thank God for the global economy and social media?

As I'm talking to my mom in Canada, I sip tea from Malaysia, made with water filtered by an American machine (Sawyer). The yogurt is from Indonesia and the Italian panettone (sweet bread) came back in our suitcases.

After our call, I walk back to the hall again, admiring the water apples growing overhead.
I'd forgotten that these vines have bean-like pods. What a beautiful red-orange color! after the yellow-orange flowers.
The helpers meet me at the hall to pack our things into boxes and bring them home.
The IES Bandung tree and ornaments belong in the basement storage room.
Lisa WAs me - anything going on tonight? We've planned nothing - we share supper and watch the first-of-the-new-year fireworks going off in New Zealand.
We have a few cakes after rice and savory treats. I share a "coffee coffee" cake Keelee baked and sent along.
Lisa and John are from Auckland, so the 6PM New Zealand festivities - 6 hours ahead of Bandung - are perfect timing. However, I'm wide awake until 1:30 AM. Sigh. Finally, I swallow 2 melatonin chocolates and sleep until just after 5 AM.

Wednesday - New Year's Day
We walk and admire a worm making its slow trek across the street. The harmony of nature - sticks, snakes, worms and more - are astonishing.
Our late breakfast is oatmeal and panettone on the Porch. After calling Mom, I take down a few ornaments. And then a few more. And then some garlands. And then some lights ... pretty soon the tree is almost bare and the shelves are almost clear of Christmas decor.
We eat lunch at Ethnic, a few blocks away. Tiny orange flowers grow on the stems where new new leaves are emerging.
 I order a delicious tenderloin ($8) which W helps me finish. 
He asks the staff to pack up his leftovers (2/3 of a $7 black pepper steak) but somehow it gets tossed. They deliver a new steak to the house! which he has for supper. 
For supper, I plan on soup leftovers from last week ...  but I'm not hungry. I put that in the freezer and eat it Friday.

Thursday - Friday
On our loop, I notice the one-lane road leading to a village on the hill. Typically, there's a squeeze between a pedestrian, a motorcycle and a car. The car can only drive partway into housing because the road forks into tiny alleys that require skill to pass through on a motorcycle. Selamat datang means "welcome."
We go down the dead-end street behind our house: W has heard construction noises and we're curious. A neighbor is rebuilding. At the end of the street, can you spot the entry to the villages below? See the opening between the roof and the little shed? We didn't notice it until someone pointed it out to us years ago.
This narrow stairway and trail give access to a warren of houses and hillside structures. We've climbed down that steep hillside a time or two.
We pack up 95% of the Christmas decor. The rest is waiting for boxes that have disappeared. "No one" seems to be able to find it while I sort ornaments and coil lights. I put away what I can and am dusty, ready for a break at 4 PM.
I keep calling PakG to come back after he dashes outside each time he carries up a box. Finally I appeal to W, can you ask him to stay around?

We note that the majority culture was much more relaxed when we came a decade ago. It's fascinating, observing how people reshape their culture with more and more restrictions. Of course, my PhD is in Intercultural Studies so watching that unfold is an anthropology textbook come to life.

Early Friday morning, I go upstairs to find how the storage boxes for lights and ornaments have disappeared. They're in plain sight. The explanation: "Oh, I thought I told you there were boxes." When I specifically asked if there was Christmas stuff, the response was "no, just picture frames and boxes." Sigh. If I hadn't been doing other things, I could have checked and saved ourselves hours of work. Even I can't find the box for the shell-and-pearl tree ornament from the Philippines. It's like it's fallen into a black hole.

While I'm upstairs, I look at what was put away while I worked downstairs. The last of it was essentially dumped atop carpets and stacked haphazardly. I even have to move a clutter of bags to get to the shelves. Well, their big chore next next week will be repacking items for proper access. There's no avoiding instructions skipped over the first time.

IbuS changes the sofa slipcover from red to black. It's hard to feel winter-ish? in 80o (27C) weather.
The room feels calm, fresh, and empty after the house is cleaned. I bring a lamp down to the reading area. The rest can wait.
With the tree gone, W pushes a few pieces furniture into place. He is motoring through his book on women in ministry. He has already written Sunday's talk, which introduces our 2025 themes. It's Friday - but Sunday is a-coming.

On the reading chair, Kim batik quilt feels like a hug from a friend. I like the chair's wide arms, which safely hold a mug of tea.
My own assignment is compiling research for a book on parents of global workers. First, I have to compose a good survey. "In January," I promised myself, having no capacity for extras before Christmas. Well, it's January. Let's get to work.

Read more:
*This is God, our God forever and ever. He will be our guide forever. Psalm 48:14

*Great is our Lord and abundant in power; his understanding is beyond measure. Psalm 147:5

*The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom, and the favor of God was upon him. Luke 2:40

*Jesus said, “I am the way and the truth and the life.” John 14:6

Moravian Prayer: Lord Jesus, the fullness of your humanity could be found in your life as a child. As you played, learned, and grew, God was with you. May your human life help us see God in all that we do. 

Jesus, we leave behind the joys and regrets of the year gone by. Guide us as we embrace new challenges and new opportunities. Help us make following you our first and only goal. Amen.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

A New Year and new expectations

Indonesian moth: ah, the adventures ahead!
How do you approach each new year? Some possibilities:

  • Ignore it. "It's an artificial marker, created by other people."
  • Celebrate it. "It's a new beginning. I'm glad I get another year."
  • Reflect on it. "What was good last year? What could be improved in the new year?"
  • Resent it. "Nothing has changed. I don't like where I am and what I do."
  • Resolve for it. "This year will be different! I want to accomplish my goals."
However you approach the coming year, I hope you're hopeful, filled to the brim with God's joy and lovingkindness. Here are some ideas to help us make the most of it:
The past and the future: granddaughter
K plays with my childhood "Johnny-doll"
  1. Have realistic expectations. If we didn't live a perfect year last time around, we probably will have some challenges this year, too. Life happens. Good and bad. Interesting and boring. Full of highs and lows. Thrilling and depressing.
        I'm glad nothing takes God by surprise, even when we feel blind-sided.
  2. Focus on important things. Let's align our dreams with lasting values. Relationships with God and others - expressed in time, energy, work, and play - will shape everything else.
        A great tip is to choose a word that expresses the focus of the coming year. Mine is "gratitude," as we set the past aside for new adventures ahead. What's yours?
  3. Set achievable goals. It's great to aim high, but we're living within our personalities, relationships, and environments. How can we become more fully human, the best person we can be where we are (or where we should be)?
  4. Be willing to work steadily, in small increments. Very few things get done in one-time big wins. What can we do today, tomorrow, this week, or this month?
  5. Invest ourselves. Let's use our talents, skills, and resources for things that matter. Remember that income is an exchange for life-hours at work. Let's spend our money (i.e. our life) deliberately, not carelessly this year.
  6. Evaluate our progress. Let's set aside regular quiet times to ask, "Are we becoming more loving? More friendly? More giving? More reliable?"
        Goals should be measurable: how will we know that we are moving in the right direction? That we have reached our target?
  7. Expect the unexpected. Let's rely on God for daily routines as well as un/pleasant surprises. Who knows what is coming our way?
        Leaning on the God-of-the-impossible, we we will have everything we need to do what He's set out for us in the coming year.
  8. Be happy. Let's remember to be grateful for blessings. When challenges come, let's thank God for good years and great experiences of the past. Things could be worse. There's always something to be thankful for - let's find those and focus on those this year!
HAPPY NEW YEAR. Blessings and peace to you from God the Father and from our Lord Jesus Christ.

Read more:
*As one from whom others hide their faces, he was despised, and we held him of no account. Isaiah 53:3 ESV

*He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God? Micah 6:8 NEV

*For God, who said, "Light shall shine out of darkness," is the One who has shone in our hearts to give the Light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. 2 Corinthians 4:6 NASB

Moravian Prayer: Father God, your light is brighter than the sun. It is so powerful that wherever we are, our path is lit and our fear of the dark is no more. Continue to light our way throughout our lives. Glory be to you. Amen.

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

31 Days in December #31: What we know for sure

Reflecting on the day and the year, here's what I know for sure.

1. God is good. He takes care of us and guides his children.
Eating breakfast together: we celebrate
God's provision - and in this case,
his abundance!

Worth a closer look:
Dutch Apple pancake


2. We are loved.
As I pack up my 2 little homemade trees,
I feel the beautiful assurance
of Christmas: we are loved
beyond what we can understand!
3. The future is hopeful.
K loves to imitate us, but she's
her own person with her own future
(even with Oma's reading glasses on her nose)
What stands out to you, in this last day of 2013? What are you looking forward to in the New Year? (Please let me know if the comment field is easier to use; it's been updated. Thanks. RK)

Read more:
*This is what the Lord says- he who made a way through the sea, a path through the mighty waters, "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43:16,18-19 NIV

*The Lord will not reject forever. Although he causes grief, he will have compassion according to the abundance of his steadfast love. Lamentations 3:31-32 NEV

*By grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God. Ephesians 2:8 ESV

Moravian Prayer: With the passing of another year, God, we reflect on all we have experienced. Grant us peace as we look back and see your steadfast love in the midst of it all. In faith, we continue our walk with you. Amen.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Time for the cure

One of five bouquets from
the January Cure
One of the most fun things I've done this year has been a January Cure. You know how it feels like time for renewal every year after the ornaments and tree are packed away?
  • We typically reflect on the old year and how we lived. Were we fully engaged as humans? Did our spiritual and physical lives reflect meditation on God's word and prayer? Did we do good deeds (an old-fashioned idea) and work hard at where God has set us?
  • Then we make resolutions or think about our hopes for the coming year. Some of us journal or keep track. Many of us forget our dreams as soon as the routines crank up to full speed.
I found Apartment Therapy's January Cure online here. It assigns a decluttering task every day. My floors are sparkling clean after hard exertion Friday at my LEAST favorite task in the house. (It was assigned so I did it.) The assignment after that was to buy flowers. One Costco bunch was enough for five arrangements.

Today's chore is to sit in a corner of the house and look around for 10 minutes. Hey, that's the kind of job that comes easily to me! (Click here for details.)

How significant! How few of us take time to think about how accustomed we've become to our patterns of relationships, work, and play. We walk past the people looking for friendship and meaning. We zoom by a cluttered corner of our minds or ignore a heap of sins tucked in the center of our hearts. We get less and less fit as we consume heaped plates of food three times a day.

Sitting and looking around is a good practice. I'm going to try for 10 minutes a day in several corners of the house this week. But more than that, I'm going to practice looking inside to see what God shines his light on. That way, I'm bound to leave behind what is spoiled and old and let Him grow the things that are reaching for Him.

What are you looking at today?

Read more:
*Joshua fell on his face to the earth and worshipped, and he said to him, “What do you command your servant, my Lord?” Joshua 5:1

*Jesus said, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it.” Luke 8:2

Moravian Prayer: Holy God, as we worship you today, give us wisdom and understanding about your intention for us and courage to fulfill your commands in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Monday, December 31, 2012

Making resolutions?

T'is the last day of 2012. Time to look back through the journal to see what progress or what weaknesses lie exposed. Do you review the year as I do?

I started the year exhausted, working 10-14 hours, 6 days a week, on my dissertation. Once that was done, I partied. I've never celebrated as joyfully as this year - the dragon was slain, the un-doable done.

Then I rested. My journal shows a lack of momentum for months afterwards. I was so mentally drained that it was hard to focus. So I did very little. I puttered. I played piano. I painted a bit. I read a lot of nonsense and light fiction. I watched Korean dramas and followed Spy and Arrow on Hulu+

In November things started to heat up again. "Take up your bed and walk already!" was the message I heard during devotions. I started Monvee (from "mon vie," a spiritual discipleship program hosted by our church) and began to read enriching books. Someone added me as their accountability partner and a friend coached me through some sessions of a "Get Unstuck Bootcamp." (Click here for the website.) I added some exercise classes.

And suddenly I was in motion again. Thank God!

My 2013 resolutions are intended to foster spiritual life, better physical health, strong relationships, and mental vigor. Real Simple says we need 4 tips to keep our resolutions (click here for the full article):
1. be specific
2. make goals public
3. substitute "good" behaviors for "bad"
4. keep track

I don't have any earthshaking goals. It seems that keeping the ones I always choose is hard work enough:
  • read more scripture
  • pray and wait in expectation
  • be more grateful
  • read and write
  • do art
  • be hospitable
  • and work hard at whatever is at hand

What is your most desired resolution for 2013? Why?

Read more:
*Some wandered in the wilderness lost and homeless. Hungry and thirsty, they nearly died. 'LORD, help!' they cried in their trouble, and he rescued them from their distress. He led them straight to safety, to a city where they could live.

Let them praise the LORD for his great love and for the wonderful things he has done for them. For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things" Psalm 107:4–9

*My eyes fail with watching for your promise; I ask, “When will you comfort me?” Psalm 119:82

*Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it. Proverbs 3:27

*Be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. James 1:22  

*May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and through grace gave us eternal comfort and good hope, comfort your hearts. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

Moravian Prayer: God of endings and beginnings, may we bring glory tonight as we close this year and begin another. May our faith in your promise remain strong as you breathe your spirit upon us.


Gracious and giving Savior, forgive us when we withhold our power. Forgive us when we act on the behalf of a brother or a sister. Let us be fed by worship this day and go out to be your hands and feet. Amen.

Monday, January 2, 2012

The starting line

Each calendar year, we act as though we're at the starting line. The possibilities of blank pages stretch into June, September, November of 2012. What will the days bring? Will there be opportunities that we've prayed for? Will there be sorrows and partings?

Yes.

Yes, there will be all of these and more.
Instead of feeling anxious and fearful of the year, let's release 2012 into God's control. Nothing we do or say will make our dreams come true if he has not designed those things for us. No evil can harm us, no shadows darken our way, except his presence goes with us.

Along with working hard and doing our best, prayers of gratitude and surrender will ease us through the coming year. Whatever path God chooses for our journeys, walking with him adds meaning to glorious vistas and barren deserts alike.
People used to spout the cliche, "Let go and let God!" Perhaps a better motto for the New Year would be, "Hold tightly to God's loving hand to find contentment on the journey," whatever the year brings. After all, our eternal God encircles us without start or end, gently guiding to the final destination where we shall "ever be with the Lord" (1 Thess. 4:17).

Read more:
*Genesis 1:1-2:3; Matthew 1:1-17

*Blessed are those who walk not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the path of sinners,  nor sit in the seat of the scornful;  but their delight is in the law of the LORD,  and in His law they meditate day and night.  
They shall be like trees planted by the rivers of water, that bring forth their fruit in season,  whose leaves also shall not wither; and whatever they do shall prosper. Psalm 1:1-3   NKJV  (plural added)

"For the word of the LORD holds true, and we can trust everything he does. He loves whatever is just and good; the unfailing love of the LORD fills the earth." Psalm 33:4–5 NLT

*You have made the Lord your refuge. Psalm 91:9

*Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7


Moravian Prayer: God of our future, things will happen this year which we can not foresee. Some may delight us, and others may cause us grief. At year's end, we will look back and know you were with us. "Great is thy faithfulness!" Amen.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Old and new leaves, transitioning 2010 into 2011

We're "turning over a new leaf" in 2011, brushing aside the old foliage of the past year. Many of us make resolutions at this time of year. Some make elaborate plans to improve themselves. Others have simpler goals: 
  • "Be happier." 
  • "Lose the fat." 
  • "Exercise faithfully." 
  • "Read through the Bible." 
  • "Find a spouse."
  • "Attend church regularly." 
  • "Teach my children manners."
  • "Make friends at the office."
  • "Volunteer more."
  • Etc. We're shooting for big, general - and random - goals without planning details to reach them. Our resolutions are more sighs and wishes than strategic focus.
I usually land somewhere between well-articulated goals and sloppy evaluations. I take out my journal the last week of the year to reflect on what went right and what went askew. Then I think about what might be important in the new year.

Once again, I accomplished a few things I am happy about, but did a few things wrong. Being honest about what we did well is harder for some people than self-critique. Others only want to look back positively, reluctant to be honest enough to admit, "I was a flop at..." or, "I should have done better at..."


This year, I intend to compare journals of the past ten years, asking questions to expose three patterns:
  1. Are there successes and giftings that could be developed further in 2011?
  2. What do I resolve year after year that NEEDS a change in attitude or behavior? Can such a transformation be activated by spiritual growth or does it depend on other disciplines?
  3. What dreams are unrealized or unfulfilled? Am I hanging on to worthless ideals when God has changed my life's direction? Or are those dreams still worth pursuing? If so, how can I move step-by-step toward them?
I don't know how honest we can be with ourselves. We see through a glass dimly, not only when looking at God and others, but also when examining ourselves. Some day, scripture promises we will know as we are known. On that day, we will be stunned by our blindness, surprised by God's grace, and terrified by the extent of His mercy. 
In the meantime, I'm planning a few hours of solitude to meditation on scripture and reflect on my own journey. I want to move toward God's desires and opportunities in the coming days and months.

How will you bring 2010 to a close and walk into 2011?

Read more:
*Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 NKJV

*We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands. The man who says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But if anyone obeys his word, God’s love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did. 1 John 2:3-6 NIV